Clubbing alone

[Bazuka]

Sometimes i want to test the fields but lack wingmen to go clubbing with..

Is it possible to demonstrate high value when going out clubbing alone.. Because sometimes i have no choice but to do this.

[Phil]

Originally Posted by Bazuka

Is it possible to demonstrate high value when going out clubbing alone.. Because sometimes i have no choice but to do this.

yes, i read in a book that a master pua had written, that you can get away with wearing a badge that says

"i am of high value"

im assuming its true since a mpua put it in a book

[Joker]

Just say 'hello' to ANY nearby mixed group, tell them that you are waiting for your mates or that your mates (that were supposed to be here) are at another club half way across town that happens to have the same name as the place you are in (what are the chances!) or any other bullshit story...

And then just boom move on...Find out how they know each other, chat shit, tell stories, high five the girls, have fun with it. Then don't out stay your welcome and fuck off to another group.

BINGO...you are not alone... If they turn out to be cunts or are all in couples/don't speak english or whatever. Just rinse and repeat. In fact rinse and repeat anyway. Don't depend on any one group, introduce them to each other, then leave and open another group.

In about 15/20 mins you'll be the guy that knows everyone and no one will know you turned up with no mates anyway...

[Joker]

For added motivation listen to this on loop on your way to the club...

Michael Jackson - You Are Not Alone - YouTube

[Maxemillion]

recommend start in bars about eleven ish. "My friends have gone somewhere, hi I'm dave..bla bla" meet the group. "we're all going to blabla later if u want to come" "yeah... i might do" remember some names. once in a club you can hang out with your new mates and game others from there, done it a few times.

[Bazuka]

^^ cool idea..

[Volta]

Originally Posted by Bazuka

Sometimes i want to test the fields but lack wingmen to go clubbing with..

Is it possible to demonstrate high value when going out clubbing alone.. Because sometimes i have no choice but to do this.

You should definitely read "Conquer Your Campus" - I'm not even at university any more but it definitely helped me with dealing with situations like this - there's posts above me (Maxemillion and Joker, great advice lads) that echo the same sentiment but if you're running solo then just be THAT AWESOME GUY who you run into on nights out, and spend more time doing crazy stuff than worrying about picking up girls, if you're fun, interesting and sociable, they'll come to you. If not, get one of your new friends from the evening to introduce you to them

[CovertOperation]

Originally Posted by Phil

yes, i read in a book that a master pua had written, that you can get away with wearing a badge that says

"i am of high value"

im assuming its true since a mpua put it in a book

Phil, you could always use Styles My Cat Got Run Over routine, which works 73% of the time. Were you referring to that, or to Di Carlo's Shock Reverse Nuclear Explosion Mars Bar technique?

Hang on, I'll go and email Gambler and see what he tells me to do in this situation...

[Rabbid]

I've gone out alone and rarely does anyone care or notice, its in your own head that it matters.

Think when someone speaks to you and there friends might be across the room as they're on the way back from the toilet or something do you go "hmm I'm suspisous this person has no friends so if thats true I won't talk to them" or does it not even cross your mind?

Seriously and when I am challenged with "where are you friends" I said, "at home, they weren't up for coming out tonight but I wanted to come out so here I am".

[Volta]

Originally Posted by Rabbid

I've gone out alone and rarely does anyone care or notice, its in your own head that it matters.

Think when someone speaks to you and there friends might be across the room as they're on the way back from the toilet or something do you go "hmm I'm suspisous this person has no friends so if thats true I won't talk to them" or does it not even cross your mind?

Seriously and when I am challenged with "where are you friends" I said, "at home, they weren't up for coming out tonight but I wanted to come out so here I am".

Good shout, I guess it can all work out if you've got the right attitude about it, the thing is you could end up looking like a bit of a one-man-wolf-pack and clinging to a certain group if you stay too long y'know?

I like that line about wanting to go out though, give off the impression of just not caring, fair play Rabbid, fair play