killed ur cool this one tho

thanks for advices guys, really appreciate it ! I am only 21 years old and i didnt experience such things before, i never thought this could ever happen to me cuz i always played it cool nd it always worked for me but once i showed my feelings to the girl a little bit more, she left me. It is a funny paradox because the reason that she left me is that she lost the attraction for me. We only talked on the phone and chatted on FB last month, by that time i was a good and nice BF telling her that i like her each time we finished our conversation. If she was here with me seeing me chatting to hot girls on the street or seeing my Uni classmates touching my six-pack at female toilets haha she would never lose the fucking attraction and fighted to keep me ! But whatever, life is not that fair.

u dont need to tell people u like them, u just assume they know, if they wanna know they will ask... but then that question comes from insecurity... and u telling her to me, was u looking for her to open up 2 u.

funny tha coz i learned it all without ur hippy shit, go figure

i get ur point, but she was often the first one telling me that, i just replied the same way.

coz she wanted u to tell her back.

coz here is the thing... before people hit 25... and u have experienced shit...

all u want is what u cant have....

then when u grow up a bit... u want what u want.


ur both young, this is youth! its part of learning

I agree and dont agree with this statment
from a 'getting girls to like you' point of view - not telling them you like them or complimenting them puts them on the backfoot especially if they are a hottie - which works to your advantage, as they will seek validation from you themselves and pursue you.

BUT

Personally, turning girls/dates into a RELATIONSHIP actually getting them to have genuine feelings for you rather than game playing and lusting after 'getting you'
it works far better to pay girls genuine honest compliments.
'you look beautiful' 'i really like you' etc etc and these should never be prompted by the girl asking but should be initiated by you
but on a side note -- saying things like ' you are beautiful' etc is a double edged sword - if you say it from a position of awesomeness/power/confidence -it works like i explained, BUT if you say it from a gay slimy 'i need you' position it will get you blown out the water

Oh for fuck sake, boo fucking hoo.....if you want her back you will never get her back, if you dont want her back the possibility of it will increase dramaticly. the problem then however is that you wont want her back.

ajay

A nice problem to have ?

aint it da troof