Break Up
 

Well guys, me and my girl, we have had this long distance relationship for 10 months. She lives in Slovakia and I study in England, weve been 'personally' together for 6 months out of the 10 months that we are oficially a couple. I spent whole summer with her until 12th of September, since then im in england again but i was about to go back to slovakia on 14th of October but seems like i wont because today we broke up, she left me. She wrote me a message to call her, and she said that she wants to break up because this relationship makes no sense, that she only sees me once in 2 months for 2 weeks. I know that she was always attracted to me, to be more arrogant, i am the guy who is always surrounded with girls and she knows it but lately i acted a little bit needy, i gave her too much power lately by writting her gay messages about how i like her and bla bla and she felt like im GRANTED. We often talk on facebook but mostly on phone.

You know guys, im not trying to be a hero, it hurt me that my girl left me. And i know exactly what a general PUA advice for this would be, ''forget about her and get another girls, you will soon forget about her, it are just chemicals, dont worry bro''.

BUT, i want to make her attracted to me again and fucking beg me to come back to her. What should i do to make it happen? Guys, she is only 19 !

I would like to see some positive replies from you, dont say that there is nothing you can do about it now. There always is a solution and if u think there isn't then don't post here please !

All advice is appreciated, thank u !

distance

can u explain it further ?

i feel such a big need writting her a message, but i think it would be a VERY BAD IDEA. Shit, this feelings are fucked up but everyone has been in these situations. Need to get over it

Forget about her & get other girls, you will soon forget about her, it is just chemicals, dont worry bro.


Seriously though?

You said she is only 19 as if it should mean she will be easy to get back!

Reality check: most 19 year old girls dont want to be serious in a relationship, they want to party & play around without any ties, & even if you did get her back, it will usually come back to "i just want to have fun & be single"

But since your gunna try anyway no matter what anyone tells you (been there myself) i would say do what amit said.

good advice, u think fucking her classmate is a good idea ?

if u act needy, then in a few months, u will hate urself for it

no message no matter how romantic or whatever is gonna change her mind.

its the end accept it

Hey man,

Sorry to hear that. Remember though, you are flesh and blood, you will love and lose and feel pain many times in your life, as you are doing it at your limits, then chin-up, most people don't.

That said, the general sentiment is true, the more you need her the less she will want you. Lose your desire in the crazy shit-storm of life, go out, smile, scream, laugh, be all the things that made her want you in the first place... funny thing is, by the time she sees that, you'll likely be well over her.

x

well, to be honest, that is what i told her ''i accept it, i understand u, u know the best what u want, it was a nice relationship, it is silly that we throw it away like this but whatever, bye babe'

ur best response would be!! ahh... right... ok u sure????

yes...


cool take it easy.

<end> thats gonna be my new response to rejection, no matter what !!! THAT IS GONNA BE IT.

coz i know i will love myself for it

WHAT A FUCKING POST!!!

ur still gay tho adam, so there