just open your mouth and define the rules you want

This!

until she starts to resent you, but I guess if your just fuck buddies then it wont matter

If done in the right way, defining rules won't make either of you feel bad...

however if you sort out yourself out, you define your interactions and relationships and most of all gain self-respect and respect from others, you shouldn't have to define your rules.

Yeah there'll always be the odd thing that you don't like but if you're honest about it when it happens and tell them why then it doesn't become a problem!

ive gone from shagging as many girls at once as possible to these days finding one really nice one and just being exclusive with her.
because ive realised that life is about doing the things you enjoy, that make you happy and you are passionate about-- its NOT about chasing shit loads of women.

so when i find a really nice one and we hit date 2 onwards and things are heating up i`ll bring up wether we are exclusive or dating other people.
if she wants to not be exclusive and date other people (never happens) i just say well im not interested in shagging other people so if thats the case i`ll walk

its your life do what you want-dont be at someone elses whim, if they wont tow your line then move on

POF OFF POF, this is what happens when you meet slags of POF..... what happend to chalenging yourself guys!! These girls are merely lumps of coal, when out in the real world you get to meet diamonds!

And no i havent ever had the tabes turned on me, im very particular of what i stick my cock into

AJay

AJay have you met anyone from POF?

Once, lets just say she didnt fit her description or picture

AJay

Then you need to set your standards higher