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GenePoole 13-09-2011 06:32 AM

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Originally Posted by chops147 (Post 55499)
why write a thread if you're planning on sticking to singles?

Because I was looking at ways of expanding. The whole premise of fit girls only go out in groups is just false...at the weekend maybe but there are plenty of other time to get a conversation going.

Guest 13-09-2011 06:38 AM

So you looked at expanding, via groups, asked about it in a thread, then decide not to?

GenePoole 13-09-2011 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by al_phaD (Post 55509)
So you looked at expanding, via groups, asked about it in a thread, then decide not to?

No, I just said maybe it was simpler to focus on what works...as a question.

GenePoole 13-09-2011 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 55515)
This is what people are referring to, Gene. We are all English users and we are confused by this. If you had meant to do anything other than post because you have a personal sticking point with groups amd you are looking for specific advice on how to move beyond that sticking point, then this thread was ill conceived. This is not something that others are misinterpreting. It is either your terrible use of Engrish (I don't think it is that), or that you really just want what most people on internet forums want consolation, acceptance and righteousness (this is a distinct pattern in your threads):


Fair point, it is easy to go off on a tangent especially on this site.
would it not be easier for me to stick to what I know than try to do something unknown and possibly uncomfortable?'
Not my original question but that is what came out after, yes.

Trolling? No, I just have a lot going on in my head.

Guest 13-09-2011 08:53 AM

"Easier" isn't always better

Its not easy to score a threesome with two strippers but you will fucking enjoy it!

(or maybe it is easy, but not for some)

chops147 13-09-2011 04:16 PM

I think you should open groups not just to get laid but to help develope your general social skills.

there's nothing more fulfilling than an entire group that think you're the don.

Breaker 13-09-2011 08:07 PM

Is it not just easier to sit indoors wanking over the possibilities possibly touching a girls boobies once you've read enough ebooks...

I approach groups, but it is harder as I tend to approach alone and usually have to compete with her fat jealous mate, who's "looking out for her".

GenePoole 13-09-2011 09:48 PM

and this part:
lack of conviction when it comes to opening sets of 2 girls or more and also what to talk about after the open. If I don't get an immediately chatty girl then I soon run out of things to say. Demonstrating higher value and all that isn't a problem but I don't find it particularly fun just reeling off lots of exciting things about myself unless it's intertwined with a long conversation with the girl.

Obviously, it takes 2 to make a conversation. It normally depends on environment I find...situational stuff but if they've been approached by loads of men already then you need to make it more interesting.

daleinthedark 13-09-2011 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by GenePoole (Post 55539)
and this part:
lack of conviction when it comes to opening sets of 2 girls or more and also what to talk about after the open. If I don't get an immediately chatty girl then I soon run out of things to say. Demonstrating higher value and all that isn't a problem but I don't find it particularly fun just reeling off lots of exciting things about myself unless it's intertwined with a long conversation with the girl.

Obviously, it takes 2 to make a conversation. It normally depends on environment I find...situational stuff but if they've been approached by loads of men already then you need to make it more interesting.

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Originally Posted by daleinthedark (Post 55476)
It seems you have forgotten the teenage virtue of flirting - just wind them up about stuff, their shoes, clothes, say they stand! If you do this they will want to defend themselves, giving you the higher value and a conversation.

Seriously just wind them up from the start playfully and they'll get on board

Knave 13-09-2011 10:23 PM

I can only echo what’s been said already coupled with my own experience.

If you can be arsed reading my very first posts you’ll discover this was my weakness as well.

Approaching groups.

Before I arrived at this site I’d quite happily been hitting single girls in the street with good success for months and before that spent months reading watching, listening to hours and hours worth of PUA material.

I knew exactly what to do and how to do it but my limiting belief was it felt impolite to approach a group, crazy I know but that’s what I believed, which was a real problem as I went out solo.

Naturally you avoid single girls for obvious reasons and a two set is almost impossible to isolate if you're wingless so that only left groups.

I overcame this by just simply approaching groups, I was reading a lot of NLP at the time which helped but essentially the only way you are going to overcome your fear is by doing it.


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