If you're pretty sure a girl is into you and you've exchanged quite a few messages with innuendo, what's the best way to suggest staying over when they are in a different city, want to meet you for some drinks, but they are staying with friends/temporary shared work accommodation and can't really invite you over as it's not their place?

I could be passing through for the night and just book a hotel but it might seem to be presuming things...

im gonna come stay in your city to see you... if its fine with you we can go out & play in the next few weeks... ok x

then when she says ye ok...

u can organise it whenever you want then... she can even help u plan.

just say, im only gettin a single room tho so not even your best moves are gonna work (wink, kiss)

oooh ye i like this question

been on a couple dates, she's working away from home for a while and invited me out for a night even though she's staying at another flat (basically on the couch) not her place to offer a night to stay.

hotel..... and u have been on a date, that means u should be presuming

I meant without making it obvious I'm presuming.
One route is make it blatantly obvious but I prefer the innuendo route, that allows the girl to think about it in the back of her mind but not feel like she's giving it out too easily.

No, but she's made it obvious she wants to and keeps inviting me out. I should have done really at the end of the 2nd date.

Should have kissed on the first date.

NO YOU DONT PREFER THIS WAY, ITS JUST EASIER, you would clearly prefer to grab her, ravish her & fuck her but dont have the balls.

ur way avoids u getting blown out. dont make excuses mate, its as simple as everyone who does PUA, u fear rejection so u buy into a method that makes her make the move.

be a man, if ur on a date with a girl, she knows u wana fuck her.

HOW ARE U NOT KISSING ON THE FIRST DATE, this is a clear indicatior of ur fear of rejection... U NEED TO TAKE A STEP IN LIFE AND MAN UP!!! unless u learn to ignore u fear ur gonna be unhappy for a long time

WHAAAAAAAATTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!


every girl i meet says, "if a lad hasnt kissed me on the first date, im not goin out with him again"

WOMEN LIKE MEN NOT PUSSIES