As you may know, I'm quite new, and I've posted a couple of threads already about travelling, and potentially meeting up with women. I was going to go down the CouchSurfing route (going to people's houses), but I'm not going to do that.

There is an option on CouchSurfing to meet up for coffee (or a drink, or meal, if you so wish). I'm planning to arrange to meet up with women in each place I go to (I will be going to a few places in America). This will be done as a coffee meet (or whatever we decide, but I'll just use that term for now). How can I turn a coffee meeting into something sexual? I'm not really into the PUA stuff, but I'm prepared to give it a go. Should I be doing things in advance (either on email, or phone), or just do stuff when we meet?

By the way, I have done it before when I was new to the site. I met a lovely young lady for coffee in Europe, but as I didn't know how to take it further, nothing happened.

Thanks in advance for your help.

p.s. If CouchSurfing isn't a good site for this, then I could use RentAFriend. I know it's a pay site, but not all of them charge, and some are only £10/$10 an hour.

Order a Grande whilst winking at your date

Personally I would just work your magic when you meet! In preparation i recommend downloading and watching at least the first 3hrs of RSD Blueprint decoded (available on all good torrent sites)

Then before you get there or even travel practice approaching an opening lots of people (men/women/oaps/shopkeepers?etc) for a chat. If you think this is an issue buy/download "The Rules of the Game" but Nick Strauss and complete the 30day challenge within.

Good luck

£10 an hour??? WHAT? You may as well add a bit to that and get laid by some gorgeous hooker!

You meant Neil Strauss but good advice


But personally I think this is a long winded, difficult way to get some sex. You clearly just wana get laid.. but I think, meeting some bird off the net in a coffee shop to discuss couchsurfing or whatever, she's MIGHT be a little creeped out? I'm not saying this method can't work, I just think you could rapidly increase your odds by changing your game tactics

wtf Rentafriend? i need to get my awesomeness on there and be a rentboy!

It was late and I had HBs on my brain (1 called Nick apparently)
It is a long winded way to go about thingf but it's helpful if you don't already have the confidence or skill-set for just opening with small talk.

I agree Alpha, success rates would be higher from online dating, night-game or just going to an event/festival/attraction whilst you are out there! Meeting people and asking girls to continue the fun...

Yeah this is true!

Thanks for all your replies on this.

Don't really want to download anything from a torrent, as last time I got a virus. That being the case, what should I say/do to her? As I've said before, not really done any PUA stuff before.

I will have a look at this. However, I can't see how this will help as I won't need to approach her as she'll already be there!

That being the case, what methods do you suggest I try? I'm not really into pubs/clubs, but can give it a go.

So, if I went to a museum/attraction for example, what would be the best way of getting a date/sex from meeting someone there? I suppose there you have a ready-made conversation starter by talking about where you are. Also, sometimes the women approach the men!

I agree with you on the long-windedness of it! I don't really have the confidence to go to clubs etc. That being the case, how would you turn one of these meetings into sex?

You could pickup a girl in Tescos, the petrol station, maccie Ds, a museum, a pub, a hotel, ANYWHERE.

As for getting laid by these girls.. I think your issue is you seem too outcome dependant.. stop giving a huge fuck about sex and enjoy your time with these wonderful women

you say you don't like clubs due to confidence? deal with this FIRST

Where do you live? RSD blueprint may help your confidence issues, and the torrent is virus free and easy to find

Great, but how?

It's not a lack of confidence, just not my scene that's all.

You said lack of confidence in your post...
"I don't really have the confidence to go to clubs etc"

You are asking, how to pick up a chick in Tescos... on a PUA Forum, knowing nothing about PUA..

I have to ask, how did you even hear of it?

You have to approach the girl, create attraction, build comfort, bounce location, build sexual tension, fuck close

I may not be helping much here.. work on your own inner self and confidence first