Go Back   PUA Forums - The UK's Leading Pick-up Artist Forum > Pickup Forums > General Chat


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
(#1)
Old
MASTER PUA
 
Default orbiters just friends? - 30-08-2011, 02:38 PM

If girls believe orbiters are friends, is this just something you have to deal with?
Personally, I've been out with girls that had some sort of relationship or night with some people in their social group, I tried explaining these guys were not real friends but they wouldn't have it.
I don;t see the point in staying friends with girls unless you want to shag them.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote

Don't like ads? Register a free account to make them go away forever.

(#2)
Old
MASTER PUA
 
Default 30-08-2011, 02:41 PM

Dude, you need to change your username to "U-turn"

"I don;t see the point in staying friends with girls unless you want to shag them."

Is essentially the polar opposite of the viewpoint you were expressing in earlier threads

Be consistent and chill
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to scamp For This Useful Post:
Refl3x (31-08-2011)
(#3)
Old
MASTER PUA
 
Default 30-08-2011, 02:50 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by scamp View Post
Dude, you need to change your username to "U-turn"

"I don;t see the point in staying friends with girls unless you want to shag them."

Is essentially the polar opposite of the viewpoint you were expressing in earlier threads

Be consistent and chill
The point is that if you are "being friends" (and they are single) with them it's for an ulterior motive.
The point I was expressing in the earlier thread was about making your agenda clear to the girl (or at least trying to).
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#4)
Old
SmileyK's Avatar
MASTER PUA
Bounce Back Champion
 
Default 30-08-2011, 04:54 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by GenePoole View Post
The point is that if you are "being friends" (and they are single) with them it's for an ulterior motive.
I would disagree with you, but each to their own I guess....


'I've never known a man worth his salt who, in the long run, deep down in his heart, didn't appreciate the grind, the discipline.' - Vince Lombardi

'The secret of happiness is not discovered in the absence of trials, but in the midst of them' - Ted Nace
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to SmileyK For This Useful Post:
(#5)
Old
Knave's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 30-08-2011, 05:10 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by GenePoole View Post
If girls believe orbiters are friends, is this just something you have to deal with?
Personally, I've been out with girls that had some sort of relationship or night with some people in their social group, I tried explaining these guys were not real friends but they wouldn't have it.
I don;t see the point in staying friends with girls unless you want to shag them.
There doesn’t have to be an ulterior motive but having lots of girls as friends is very very useful. Girls know other girls (potential targets), girls like guys who are comfortable around girls and girls like guys who are out with girls.
Make having girls as friends a priority and you'll get laid more. End


Don’t think about rejection shouldn’t even enter your head, don’t think about it, just do it, no hesitations. Talk to her.

It’s the only way to get good



Top 10 ebooks | Flaking | Revitalizing Old Numbers | Cold Reading Pussy | Being a Challenge to Women
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Knave For This Useful Post:
chops147 (30-08-2011), Lovefish (14-09-2011)
(#6)
Old
Guest
Deleted
 
Default 30-08-2011, 09:22 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Knave View Post
There doesn’t have to be an ulterior motive but having lots of girls as friends is very very useful. Girls know other girls (potential targets), girls like guys who are comfortable around girls and girls like guys who are out with girls.
Make having girls as friends a priority and you'll get laid more. End
And I quote my own thought process here:

On Friday night, I went out in town with two female friends. I stayed with them all night. I woke up the next morning to some random chick from town. So having girl mates GETS YOU LAID.

Knave it correct
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#7)
Old
MASTER PUA
 
Default 30-08-2011, 10:26 PM

An orbiter is a bit different from a guy hanging around girls because it widens his social circle, no? An orbiter is a guy who either wants to sleep with his girl "mate" or has already slept with his girl mate and now hangs around for one reason or another.
Probably the same situation for some men who have orbiting girls.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#8)
Old
daleinthedark's Avatar
MASTER PUA
Helicopter Champion
 
Send a message via Skype™ to daleinthedark
Default 31-08-2011, 05:26 AM

So pretty much you're worried about other guys coming in and stealing the chick you want or you're gaming?

I've never had problems with these guys, my conversation and confidence hold her attention.

At worst you might have somebody come in and try and Amog you. Learn how to deal with AMOGs...


Be desireless. Be awesome. Be gone
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#9)
Old
MASTER PUA
 
Default 31-08-2011, 06:31 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by daleinthedark View Post
So pretty much you're worried about other guys coming in and stealing the chick you want or you're gaming?

I've never had problems with these guys, my conversation and confidence hold her attention.

At worst you might have somebody come in and try and Amog you. Learn how to deal with AMOGs...
No, not worried about that at all. I just detest the fact that they are there, the girls always seem to think they are just friends whereas the actual fact is they would take any chance they could get. It's the "When Harry met Sally" scenario.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#10)
Old
Guest
Deleted
 
Default 31-08-2011, 08:57 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by GenePoole View Post
If girls believe orbiters are friends, is this just something you have to deal with?
Personally, I've been out with girls that had some sort of relationship or night with some people in their social group, I tried explaining these guys were not real friends but they wouldn't have it.
I don;t see the point in staying friends with girls unless you want to shag them.
Just cos a guy is out with a girl doesn't make him an orbiter, but yes if he is THAT friend who wants to fuck her all the time but she keeps him friend zoned.. why would you even try to convince the girl he isn't a real friend?
Surely you want him to be an orbiter, to make way for the real men who will get laid... It just comes across as being cynical and negative towards the girl..
And I do have female friends that I wouldn't even want to fuck... granted not many, but the odd few women I'm mates with

Quote:
Originally Posted by GenePoole View Post
The point is that if you are "being friends" (and they are single) with them it's for an ulterior motive.
The point I was expressing in the earlier thread was about making your agenda clear to the girl (or at least trying to).
It is not always for an ulterior motive. most of my female friends I'd fuck, but not all.

Quote:
Originally Posted by GenePoole View Post
No, not worried about that at all. I just detest the fact that they are there, the girls always seem to think they are just friends whereas the actual fact is they would take any chance they could get. It's the "When Harry met Sally" scenario.
Why should you care about an orbiter being there. it's not like he is AMOGing you and stopping you bedding his fantasy girl.. just take his girl, pay for his taxi, blow your load in her face boom!
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply



Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off


Pick-Up Artist Forum UK
Copyright © 2024

Powered by vBulletin
Copyright ©2000 - 2010, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.