No Im Not Your Are!!!

This is a sign of changing times. Phil actually cares about this one.

Just be honest, we're here together but we're not together. You know, that stupid phase where you're a couple but you're not like 'official' and constantly pretend like you're not bothered about other people but in fact are? And hide emotions and all sorts of stupid crap? That bit.

Or, in short. "We're here together but not together. Complicated bit."

Or just the word complicated. It implies everything and makes it clear that there would be issues with you if they're considering trying anything.

"I'm a spanner and I'm trying to fuck her off but failing"
Why would someone even come up and ask if you are a couple? It would just be assumed if it's the 2 of you.

Yeah, Whatever dude.

It happens. Period.

Maybe your standard of women is lacking then? (provoking thought, not a direct attack)

I've been with girls and had lads come over (but when she was my gf) and try steal them. I would let her tell him to fuck off, and if she didn't, then I would.. (obviously this is different for Phil, just proving a point that men do approach women when they are with men!)

Half of fucking PUA literature fucking says to approach GROUPS, AND MIXED GROUPS????? This can include a 2 set male female...

I feel I have shown enough proof in this post to clarify that this is why someone would come up to her and try and steal her.

Would you want to fuck a girl who's with a "lad mate" if you could and she is smokin hot? I fuckin would, I'd have no problem takin her away for a nice blowjob and smash her back doors in for her to then return to her friend..

Difference is Phils anticipating this, and standing his ground, a lot of orbiting male friends would go home and cry, but not Phil (or anyone in the same predicament on this forum I hope )

Bad wording but it makes sense.

Yes you are a spanner
and yes you are failing.

Because if she's fit and it doesn't look like they're a couple I know I would approach; in fact I have approached and closed.


Phil why not pin it on her with a flippant comment "She's taking me out for a [drink/dinner/date]" with a cheeky wink her way. He gets the message, she likes the flirting, win win!

Good swing on words there..

There is always another way to reframe and reword in a better context for whoever you want

I'd never approach a two set anything, you can't extract (unless you have a wing and even then its fucking hard) and what is the point of approaching a girl you can't fuck or has boyfriend, what you going to do talk about xfactor?

I think my standards are pretty high, it's just that I guess when I'm with a girl it's pretty obvious I'm with her. If it's someone you're dating I suppose I could see how it could happen just that approaching a set of 1 male 1 girl seems highly unlikely. 1 male 2 girls I could understand. Actually, that happened to me a few weeks back and I couldn't believe the guy started playfully negging my bird, just as well she made it obvious by holding onto my arm.
It's more likely Phil would go off to the toilet and find when he comes back that she's being chatted up.

Not everyone fawns over, fondles or constantly kisses the girl they're with when they're out together. In fact it would piss me off if mates did this when bringing their partner out. It's a mixed social event with other people around, focus on other people and socialising when out, keep the foreplay private.

This is the mindset and behaviour the guys here have that get other men approaching when out. Or simply the fact that they don't feel the need to constantly cling to or mark their territory.