Still struggling to let girls know my intentions.
Last night I realised this is now my total sticking point.
Wanted a bit of feedback on what techniques people use.

What I don't want is people quoting back Mystery Method or Blueprint back to me verbatim.

Bear in mind I am a short-arse and quite a passive person so don’t find dominance very easy.

Am particularly interested in what less Alpha guys are using.



Scamp

hello, i feel a bit silly asking you this but would you like to get a coffee with me sometime ?

Make your intentions clear in your opener. Its higher risk but higher reward.

I realised after a while that opinion MM style openers were getting me nowhere in terms of closing (some guys will have had great success but just me personally). My now girlfriend I picked up with a direct opener 'I think you're hot can I have your number'.

Worth noting I have had a girl literally run off from me with a similar opener though. Be prepared for both outcomes. I saw the funny side!

This is no time for coffee Phil, the man needs answers!

Girl replies:

"Coffee", are you one of those pickup artists that only uses direct openers because it is more natural and has higher success rate?

He replies:

Your place or mine then?

Really liking this.

Any ideas for a same night thing though?

Or am I just being a shallow fuck?

this is part of your reason to faliure... u dont need to think

I HAVE TO FUCK HER FAST B4 SHE CHANGES HER MIND.

she isnt gonna change her mind, she has said yes coz she wants to... so u get up after a few hours and say

"this has been cool, we should do it again" then u call it an end

then text in a few days and say, HI... hows u

have a convo, dont mention meeting up again

then a few days more go by contact her and say

WE SHOULD MEET UP AGAIN! all guys rush for sex, ur too cool for any of that

in YOUR TIME ... she isnt goin anywer

Girl: No

Now where you gonna go?

hmm interesting, I can see the mindset is a winner.

but assuming I have a "not-fussed-whether-I-fuck-her-or-not" mentality

How do I make sure they look at me that way, rather than just a nice bloke they are having an innocuous chat with?

Basically I want to know how do i get from

here

"ooh this is nice, we are having a nice non-threatening chat"

to

giving her a few shakes of the spice weasel

?

Surely you just go

"Fair enough"

and move onto another one?