bit on the side?
 

Anyone here ever got a bit on the side in addition to their current girlfriend?

Where are you going with this thread?

yea chianti and fava beans

Who uses this phrase anymore, apart from maybe a retired 'Carry On' script writer.

why would you make a girl your girlriend unless she is the only girl u want to be with, if you are into fucking other girls, do so... fuck them all...just dont figuratively fuck someone ur meant to have loyalties with

makes no sense at all to me tha

I before have cheated and realise its a shitty thing to do.
It is not worth it. It causes so much heartache and agro.
It makes you a bad person. You will feel guilt in one way or another.

It will increase paranoia/anxiety, and may even cause death (AIDs, or, the girlfriend will chop off your dick)

My advice: Do not cheat. If you so desperately desire to play the field, don't get commited to anyone. If your need to be "loved" by a woman is so great that you need a girlfriend but need to fuck other girls too, see a shrink

Where I'm going with this thread is, if people think it's bad to cheat on someone then why don;t they think it's bad to mislead someone into a ONS or a fuck buddy relationship?

What would you prefer?
Mistress? Casual fuck girl?

I think most people on this forum, or at least quite a few, don't advocate misleading girls into ONS or fuck buddy relationships.

The morally correct thing to do, which many on here live by (I think), is to be honest and up front from day one about your intentions..

Besides, who wants sex based on lies

but a lot of men on this forum think its ok to let a girl cheat on her boyfriend WITH you?

ive been a "bit on the side" myself & its fun for a while.....but i was the one who got hurt in the end, its all a learning process :hihi:

Alot of men on this forum also think the opposite and will not be the bit on the side for a girl

but i thought it was REALLY good fun....until it all went tits up

I was a bit on the side once, the girl was a right stunner, and I felt awesome that she was fucking me instead of her boyfriend. This was when I had no morals

I've grew up a lot since then and I would point blank refuse to be the third wheel in their relationship. Girls got issues bro

i still dont!

it was the girl i met on facebook, who was seeing me behind her bf's back for a month, till she ditched him for me, we were an item for 4 months, then she broke my heart, & is now pregnant to me & being a biatch

life is a trip & a half lads

moral of the story is make educated decisions based on facts. She cheated on her boyfriend so you know she can't be trusted.

There's such a diverse range of action packed into that sentence it is like a summary of a Dan300: The Autobigraphy.:D

Though on a serious note, I hope u get your grief with her resolved (as u have been posting about in other threads).

I think we all wish Dan the best of luck

true lol

Thanks lads :biggthumpup:

i will let yous know if it goes well....or if i have to kill her lol

You need to plan ethically for if you are going to kill her. You don't want to go insane after and get caught

remove the teeth and burn the body that way they won't know who she is aand thus making it difficult to find out who did it.

I in no way condone murder.

ethical murder lol

Yeah it gets called eugenics. Actual lol.

ye welcome to the future...

DNA

I don't know the ease of getting DNA from ashes?

I'm pretty sure if you burn her there wont be any dna left

feels so wrong talking bout this. that's me out of this convo.

The only places it might survive would be in bones, possibly teeth. This thread is turning sinister!

bone fragments can be taken from bone

plus you can build full re models of people from bone!

im pretty sure the perfect crime isnt as simple as burnin them

u guys are so bad

i was joking, hence the LOL

she is just being all crazy & (hopefully) wont force me to go through court to get access to my wee dude, if she does, i will look like a cunt to everyone on her side, likewise she looks like a cunt to everyone on my side for giving me no choice but to look like a cunt by taking it to court, its only a LITTLE bit complicated

but there is 2 & a half months left, she should know deep down that she cannot keep me away from him even if i havnt found a job & shit by then (although im really trying my balls off to get all this sorted)

i dont want her, my one-itis has almost totally turned to hatred

but i refuse to be cut out, & i WILL be a part of my wee lads life

if she cuts me out, her whole family gets it :2guns:

LOL

I won't tell..

cheers, i knew i could rely on u al_phaD

I think a lot of men trick girls into ONS and fuck buddy relationships and lead them on. You say the idea of many in the PUA forums is the opposite but I'm not so sure it is.
There's a fine line in all of this and some say it's morally unacceptable to cheat yet they'll quite happily lead a girl on when there is no loyalty involved.

I mean seriously, how many girls would actually see you again if on your first date you said all you were interested in was sex.

Its not what you say its how you say it.
You would be suprised
You don't say "i only want sex"
you say
"im not looking for anything serious at the moment but you're hot as hell"

very clever. reminds me of an episode of the simpsons "It's not small it's cosy."

this can work against u

doesnt matter if a girl says it to a guy or likewise, it makes the other person want more cos they are made aware they cant have it, so they begin to want more

from my experience i dont think its a good idea to say this type of thing, it should be worded different, i know its sort of contradictory, cos even though saying "i dont want anything serious" sounds like an acceptable thing to state where u both stand from the beginning, it can easily lead either the girl or boy to naturally want more cos they know its out of the question

i say i know personally cos its what my ex said to me when we started our shenanigans (to be included in Dan300: The autobiography)

actually, anyone know any cool things to say in a situation like this with a girl u have only met to keep it casual & not awkward???

Work against you? It isn't your fault if she falls in love with you.. You were clear from day one.. As soon as she starts talking about you two being an item, bin her off immediately and find better pussy!

You can't be responsible for every woman's emotions just cos you worded things that would make her want you.. if anything, this works for you, cos she wants more sex with you (till she falls in love, and you bin her off)

This is straight out of the 'game' or at least the structure is.

Its esssentially presenting a girl with a challenge, well done for using PUA tactics on a PUA site