where to start....

I am very keen on this PUA stuff but I just seem to bottle it and think of reasons not to approach or make conversation. I know this is the most common problem there is.

The main problems are that I am the only one out of my group of mates that are into this art of seduction let alone I'm the only one that knows about it. And I feel I need to be around people that are into the same thing as me more often (sarging).

I need to drum it into my head 'I JUST DONT CARE' what the outcome is of any set/approach/what my mates or the people around think plus keeping a smile on my face. And once im in a set and have built a little comfort I'm usually fine on closing etc.

My other issue is, after I bottle a set or some easy day game, I immediately think of the things to say after ive left or the situation is no longer there. (I'm an introvert and find it hard enough to make a decent funny conversation with my usuall mates anyway, which gives me limiting beliefs).

The other limiting belief I have is my height, I'm 5ft 7.


Just had to get this stuff off my chest and out there. Seeing as I have shite mates that I cant have deep conversations with.

cheers guys

How old are you?
Where are you from?
Can't you sarge with some guys from on here?

I think Phil would give you the best advice. I recall him saying something like, go out and INTEND TO OFFEND women

22 from surrey (kingston near kingston upon thames), yeah ive been out with greatlooking guy and a few others buts london is a bit far and its a very expensive taxi home if i need a few drinks for courage.

im sure that people go out 2/3/4 times a week to get their game good, but i can only do 2 nights max generally.

day game scares the shit out of me

Don't the night buses run to Kingson?
I'm in a similar position to you, albeit I am a little older.

I went to Salsa tonight in Guildford just as a way to get more social and to enjoy myself and would recommend it.

2 nights a week is still better than 0 nights. I might head into London the Saturday if a few others are up for it (probably end up not drinking though as will have to drive back)

Mark

Get new mates off Find Da Wingman.

Start your visit to London EARLIER eg 3pm for daygame then can still be on track to go home 11pm for last train. So not starting out at 9pm.

Watch comedy DVDs...
Get a sense of comic timing, sarcasm, et al...
Post jokey bullshit on this forum! Follow The Rebus.

Messi is shorter than you and is greatest footballer in the world. As a kid, Messi was told he was too short to be pro footballer. Limiting belief.

As K says, just open! Just take action!

As Mark says, visit a salsa class! Very relaxed atmosphere there. Girls. Dancing.

Where should we be touching the girl?

How about inbuilt shoes that will give you three inches sly stallone uses them.

As for good coversation that will come in time i would reccomend that you read loads that will cultivate the mind as a emtpy vessel makes the most sound.

As the main population never reads they only rely on reading the sun and watching shit tv they are clueness and easy to manipulate as the goverment wants to fuck us at every avenue.

The more you do it the less of an issue it is. It's like developing any new skill, the more you do it, the more natural it becomes until you don't even think about it.

Just like learning a new software package, you learn the main funtions to start then the nuances and details take care of themselves!

Yeah, and if you don't continue to use the software, then it all just seems way too daunting and impossible to use, example photoshop.. Quite a good analogy of approaching

Photshop gets you somthing that looks real but when examined is a fake