Yeah, I know i need to get out there and just and approach as many as i can, is it common for people to do pickup while their friends are doing their own thing in the same bar. then every now and again you keep popping back to them?

Would you rather follow a trend, or create the trend?

Whereabouts are you from mate?

I can say with alot of confidence, they would ridicule me about this stuff, untill the see me gteeing results.


@niknak Im from a town called shepperton near Staines/Kingston upon Thames

Go solo.

Get out of your comfort zone.

People ridicule anything that is outside of their own comfort zone. Taking into account Zed's advice - you're not doing it right unless they're ridiculing you for it.

Yes! Do it whilst your with your friends but you dont have to tell them or keep it a secret, so what feels right!
Sometimes I just go out for fun with my mates too. When you walk up to the fittest girl there and strike up a conversation, your mates will be like "woah!" regardless of your success.