I'm not entirely convinced of the definitions you're using here, between 'confidence' and 'courage'. I'm not entirely sure that certainty is the defining characteristic between the two, that acting with confidence means acting with certainty whilst acting with courage means acting without it.
'Certainty' itself is an ambiguous concept. Certainty in what? In the certain outcome of a situation? In your own emotional reaction to the range of possible outcomes of a situation?
When I act with confidence, I might be entirely uncertain of what the outcome is going to be, even if I had an idea what it might look like. But I will be confident of my judgement that my course of action is correct, and I am further confident that I'll be able to handle the result if it goes wrong.
Can you give me some compelling examples of when you've acted with courage beyond confidence?
And further relate this to the broader field of 'pick up'? You give the following:
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A courageous man has the capability to approach any woman, in any situation, should he feel compelled. Though he knows not what the result will be.
A courageous man has the willingness to express exactly how he feels without any veil of insincerity. Though he knows not what the result will be.
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...But I don't get the definition between that and acting with confidence. Surely when you approach a girl you're never
certain what the result will be. Ever. Never ever. Never. Ever. So, on your definition, the very act of approaching a girl is one of courage and confidence, in so far as they are mutually exclusive concepts. Which I'm not convinced of either, since surely it takes courage to approach a girl, and the act of doing so shows confidence. Which in turn implies that confidence and courage are different sides of the same coin. I digress, I'm thinking outloud. But there are too many question marks here for me.
I do however tend to wonder whether this post is an (extremely long winded) way of saying 'just get stuck in', using several dozen words when just four would do.