Awsome method to get women to approach.
 

Ok Guys i have been tryin somethin and it is getting easier & easier with time....

a clear cut way to get girls to approach you... im not messin

ok basically since i been doin this ive had a fair few girls cum up and talk to me & they NEVER do that! it doesnt happen..



So....


what do u do????

its simple really, next time ur eating a big mac.... stop & go the gym instead

Thats how easy it is... coz i was an advocate of good looks before i was in shape..

NEVER DREAMED of the reaction i would get... girls walkin up to me feeling my triceps... WTF

so fuck learining to approach & all the AA.... and readin books about how to get rid..

just make the girls come to u!

Now a word from our negative anti good looks sponsors!

To be fair I hear this argument so many times I'm not disagreeing with the gym of course you'd be mad not to pump up (a bit) and get fit but although looks are never high on a womans shopping list, quite a few women are not into muscled guys.

What do you propose to do in the gym to "get in shape" out of curiosity, as I'm just starting out in the gym

Find the biggest fucking weight you can, pick it up and repeat

That would involve a lot of effort, hard work and self control every day. You would have to give up things you really like doing and start doing things you don't like doing and to keep on doing them for a very very long time.

You can see why It's not popular can't you?

Now where's that magic pill salesman.

actually i love it, and if u do it right and dont over exert untill your ready

u will get addicted to it.

most people sit in every night on the computer or watchin tv, nobody likes bein bored, so they may aswell use that time to keep in shape

Why hello there.

id suggest, go for 20 mins a day, start by doing basic stuff like

work chest 4/5 sets on the bench nothin too heavy 10k a side

then just keep it simple for a month, once exercise 4 or 5 times and look online for simple exercises..

once u have done this for a month ur body will want more...

so u can start askin guys in the gym about mixin it up, start adding weights changin routine look online..

most people jump str8 in & this is no good as it is too hard too quick..

get in your comfort zone for a month, just gettin in the gym regularly, not really to work too hard just to make it a routine in your mind,

nice light workouts

then as you progress you can add more in your own time & learn.

i went from about 3 month ago liftin 55 - 60 k to over 100 bench now& thats just from keeping my weight so i dont injure myself in my own time


dont try liftin just coz u wanna look like ur strong, lift whatever ur comfortable with

wow are you the real mystery, i have all your torrents...

i mean, books

I love whoever just did this.

Phil your right, but that only happens once you've made a habit of it and your body has learned how to adapt.

Very few will ever get that far. It takes dedication, courage, will power and self belief to get to the point.

I suppose this is where the line between looks and character merge.

Phil, thankyou very much for that post. I will make a thread diary and report back in a month... Ur right, I just sit in and watch TV shows online whenever I'm not out with people.. Need to be in the gym instead

I've been ripping it up and funny you should mention this cos I ws gonna post about it.

today at my work two cougars who never talk to me about anything (and to be honest I don't really wanna talk to them) suddenly they're like how are you. I was a bit disgusted that they were only doing it cos of my body.

same again later bird in shop being more than customer service friendly. anyway I'm loving it and I'm getting bigger day by day.

tis true mate, its arms, women love big ripped arms

Have you been showin em pictures of mine?:trampoline:

Agree with the sentiment about getting down the gym and keeping yourself in shape.

But don't agree that if you look Buff women will suddenly approach you. Like the frikkin Lynx advert

Not saying it won't happen, but where I go out there any number of ripped chodes standing around the bars/clubs puffing their chests out and walking like John Wayne.

But basically faar too pussy to actually instigate a conversation with any women.

It's like "I've done my bit, come and get it girls"

These are also the guys who are never smiling and get intimidated by short arse chaps in amusing hats chatting to all the chicks.

They also only do the "Aggressive dance" You know the one, the one that isn't in time with the music but involves making them as big as possible and using their elbows and shuffling from foot to foot.

do u stand and watch them all night? no u dont ... at some point they will get ogled

lucky for all of us the above doesnt apply so its a moo/ moot point!

then girls are not apporaching them coz they are aggressive & nothin to do with wether they fancy them or not



im telling u now, gettin in shape means girls wanna know u where they once wouldnt.

my mate who has a bird has known her for years, she is a runner in sick shape.

she is a very classy girl who he has been after for years and admited

where he not in shape, and still skinny like when they met 10 years previous, she wouldnt have shown an interest.

this is a classy girl from a very good back ground. she is however still human

It all comes down to.... If you go to the gym and work out, you will be in a better emotional state, you will feel more confident with yourself!!!! woman can sense this and are attracted to sucess, confidence and someone whos giving out a good vibe!!! No way would a woman want to approach a moody depressed looking muscle bound bald chimp!

P.S.

Diet is most important when trying to shape up

And dont ejaculate straight after you finish a workout as this can cause unequal muscle growth, meaning you may get one bicep bigger than the other or something.

Mondays - Chest and Triceps
Tuesdays - Back and Biceps
Thursday - Legs
Friday - Shoulders, Traps and forarms

Thats a good start when going to the gym, it gives plenty of time for your muscles to recover in between.

REMEBER NO MASTERBATION OR SEX UNTIL AT LEAST 2 HOURS AFTER A GYM SESSION

AJay

THIS IS FUCKIN CRAP, I HATE ALL THIS EMOTIONAL STATE BOLLOCKS.

no woman has gone

"can i feel ur arms please, they just make you look so confident"

they just say, wow, i love men with big arms.... thats it

u all need to let PUA go for 1 min & realise, if u had the gift of social awesomeness as its called,

teamed up with women LUSTING for you. its win win

women dont buy the fireman calendar 2012 coz all the firemen look confident

ITS SO FRUSTRATING WHEN PEOPLE JUST WONT ACCEPT WOMEN ARE LUSTFUL !!

Lol Phillip honey your reading text which just isn’t there, So no need to get frustrated by that enormous ego of yours. Of course women are lustful, but there’s more to why woman approach, have approached you! Not just because you’re so amazing and you have nice arms. To be approachable you need to come across as non-threatening....i know a lot of body builders with amazing bodies who never have woman approach them, as they are just to intimidating and unapproachable. And with all due respect, the majority of them can’t string to words together properly. But obviously looking good plays a big role, it goes without saying. Not to fool anyone, you’re not going to get approached by woman just because you have nice arms!! You will just look and feel better!

Lots of love

AJay

"to words"


oh the irony! :clapclap:
is this your secret claim to be a "body builder with with amazing body"? :D

F*ck that. I'd rather play World of Warcraft.

seriously dont get into that shit-- i played that fucking game for 5 years
best thing i ever did weas ban myself from games

So what are the take home message sabout this thread?

Get Buff

Have Fun

?

I have to say although I haven't noticed more women opening me since I started gym-ing it three times a week (over a year now)

I HAVE noticed an awful lot more kino from the ones I'm having a bit of the ol chat with.

Putting their hands on my shoulder, upper arm, stomach etc

hmmmmm.

I need to capitalise on this, right off to Trolley dolly night tonight I think

Have fun.

I love the cream of the crop girls you keep telling us about Phil. Our mouths water.

and what do u class as Cream of the crop??

as far as im concerned, if u have a GF, if i threw on the game, i could fuck her!

i dont care how high regard u hold her.

all girls can be turned, just takes the right man.

they are all chivalry hungry

I think being buff is good but if you were super buff but had poor body language could be an issue.

way I see it is character/game + looks/body = Casanova

also I notice a lot of buff guys fold their arms and other things to try and make their muscles look bigger save it for Mr Olympia this just looks chody, but you could do actual poses in a joky sort of way.

either that or they wear vests and t shirts about 3 sizes too small, maybe add a few tattoos there too to make them even more noticable lol

you forgot four jumpers in the winter.

WOAH WOAH WOAH!!!

ive NEVER EVER said tha.... its bollocks....

i think u need both..

all im tryin to put across to everyone, and i will get there, (and im not doin it for my own ego or to be right, i just genuinely want u guys to benefit from my experience)

with what you all know about human interaction, if you looked good, plus your social skills, you would all enjoy life alot more.

being buff alone is a waste...

being socially cool alone is probably better than bein buff alone but still... a waste

if you have a little or alot of both, (especially alot) you guys are gonna realise that life is EASY! and so is taking what u want

Haha, your showboating cracks me up man. I feel we're swaying somewhat off course though. You seem to be confusing being ripped with chivalry.

Reckon you still stand a chance?

phil you couldn't pull my bird cos she's too short for you you'd split her in half. so your plan is flawed. oh and it's an open relationship so I wouldn't mind.....................I'm still not giving you her details though :p

i didnt confuse anythin, why does everyone here like puttin words in my mouth.

when did i??

and i dont just mean i have a chance, i think in the right situation any girl will cheat, i dont think they have the same sense of loyalty that men have.

I agree they don't but if they love a guy like so much it actually then not so but then it's because of her feelings of love and not loyalty.

I sense some irony here.

Brain fart alert!! Phil, stop making sweeping assumptions, it gets you nowhere. To me it sounds like you really need to get out and meet some higher quality girls, and no, I don't just mean HOT, I mean with some values.

if u had met as many girls as i have, who guys think are quiet angels... and i mean miss priss... who when it comes down to it, when u tear away at the icing,

they are bad to the core! you would be as pessimistic as i. girls have a way to portray themselves and i break that down all the time!

and if u knew me, & had met me id show u exactly what i mean.

Leaders project their own realities on their surroundings, people around them aspire to align themselves with their reality in order to closer ally themselves.

With this in mind, by being the way you are you create your own reality by inspiring it in others. Because a girl wants you she seeks to align with the reality you create and you are influencing - self admitedly - the behaviours they exhibit.

A passionately moral person of the same strength/leader character has the same influence on his surrounding, inspiring good in those around him.

You would probably experience something different to this if you ever went after girls that weren't actually into you Phil, the ones that don't bend themselves to your will/influence as a result of the fact that they like you. The thing is that you don't waste your time with people that aren't attracted to you (not saying you should at all - just pointing it out). The result of this is a bubble where you believe everyone around you to be the same.

It's self fulfilling in a sense. The only way to see a different reality is to break the vision of one's own reality.

I'm not interested in the argument you lot are having, but I am interested in that little nugget about breaking down the mask or social persona which is what you were implying there Phil I think.

Can you elaborate on this please from your point of view, either here or in a new thread? Would be interesting if you're doing this consciously and have any practical hows and whys...etc.

I'm gonna hit the hay but will check back tomorrow.

PS

u do not know me AT all... and the fact u just made that whole statement means u chat shit.

u make assumptions about how the women i frequent! u have no clue whatsoever.

honestly mate if u knew me at all u would know how much bollocks that was regarding me & this thread

but u dont, so please continue with your WORDS OF WISDOM