when girls are in a bad mood

[mastere666]

Yo folks,

Over the last week when I've been texting girls a seemingly reoccurring scenario is they've been in bad head space i.e. broke up with boyfriend, had an argument with friend/family. It has just been coincidence this week, but it's had me thinking In the past more extreme cases have also emerged with girls having told me about family members passing away or very ill etc.

However i'm personally not the sort of person who likes to share my life issues up front with people since it causes a negative vibe (that's why I consult all my issues/concerns on online forums instead :-P.) So for this reason I find it difficult what to say in that situation, especially with girls im sexually interested in. Any ideas or advice on what to do in this situation would be much appreciated, I just dont know what to do/say to make things better. i.e. change the conversation or what??

[Darood]

[TallGuySlim]

"Sorry to hear about that, how are you feeling? If you want to talk about it, call me anytime and we can meetup. Hope its sorted/gets better/recovers soon. Thinking of you, bye"

[mastere666]

Lol I new someone would post this. I'm looking for constructive feedback here, surely you have some input? Just to put things into prospective one of the two girls who text me (telling me she broke up with her boyfriend) I have already fucked last year we were house-mates and have a very flirty but trusting/connective relationship.

Originally Posted by mastere666

Lol I new someone would post this. I'm looking for constructive feedback here, surely you have some input? Just to put things into prospective one of the two girls who text me (telling me she broke up with her boyfriend) I have already fucked last year we were house-mates and have a very flirty but trusting/connective relationship.

Definitely meet her in person rather than text/IM or anything else. Then at least you're her real shoulder, and she leans in for a kiss, and BAM you're the hot rebound sex she wants!

[mastere666]

Meh I went ahead and texted her, all went accordingly I've got her hooked :P, I sometimes doubt myself in texting don't know why. Just don't do it as much I suppose. I'm never first to text someone unless its for something quick i'd rather ring/meet up.

[Refl3x]

easy.... just have a quick chat with her on the phone ask her how she is etc, say its weird being on your own after being in a realtionship etc, then invite her round, offer to cook her somthing and a wine and dvd night.
she`ll come round, relax around you and then want to fuck because she is free and lonely.
its that simple - tried and tested -- if shes not up for it bin her off and ask her to give you a shout if she wants to hook up-- just dont be gay and be her agony aunt

Originally Posted by Refl3x

easy.... just have a quick chat with her on the phone ask her how she is etc, say its weird being on your own after being in a realtionship etc, then invite her round, offer to cook her somthing and a wine and dvd night.
she`ll come round, relax around you and then want to fuck because she is free and lonely.
its that simple - tried and tested -- if shes not up for it bin her off and ask her to give you a shout if she wants to hook up-- just dont be gay and be her agony aunt

If its the latter option where you have to bin her off, give her the phone number for dear deidre out of The Sun

[Phil]

i avoid people in bad headspace, especially girls, you become a poster for negative times...

i tried to drag a girl from this place once, didnt turn out too well, a got dragged into it, she stepped out & i was left there.

AVOID NEGATIVE PEOPLE AT ALL COSTS

[Knave]

Originally Posted by Phil

AVOID NEGATIVE PEOPLE AT ALL COSTS

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if there your friends its time for new ones