An interesting post, I can relate to all of the comments in some way or another. I feel
PUA theory affects everyone differently. Personally for me reading game i.e. magic bullets, mystery method and the likes got me more and more confused. I became convinced learning the latest pick-up line was the root to my success with women and from this I lost all confidence in myself because I had confidence in the pick-up lines, games and gambits which were getting me results, I soon became of the opinion that since these things worked so well I was was not good enough as a person and tried to adopt a new personality.
Without really realising I started to behave like an ass I became depressed and weird because I was trying to construct a 'pick-up identity' to better my chances with women. It was incongruent and showing my friends were even saying so. Despite some of the grief PU material caused me I cannot deny it has many worthy applications i.e. value theory, creating emotional connections with women, leading women etc. all basics and seemingly obvious stuff now but I learnt it from the books so that I must be thankful for.
Luckily I came to this site which pointed me in the right direction, since I have learnt to be myself and truth be told nothing has worked better. I'm more me than I ever have been some notable posts from jaz and kowalski on being 100% honest to people about your intentions has helped massively, and posts related to not caring what people think have also really been useful not only has my success with women increased, but i'm happier than ever and life is getting better and better.