Things that have affected you the most.
 

Snake Eyes inspired this thread with this post: http://www.puaforum.co.uk/46741-post23.html

Think through what you do and how you act and consider what has influenced each part of your habitual interactions.

It doesn't matter what source. What has influenced the way you think the most? There may be certain things that you've forgotten about from other sources that have in fact influenced you so have a good think about each source and whether or not there are at least one or two things that you've taken from them into your own self. The mood might be against formulaic things here but I guarantee some people that prefer natural stuff still consider value theory to be important, etc.

Don't you ever think to yourself:

"Fuck I'm awesome !!! "

I agree there are so many of these threads I feel like I'm being interviewd.

Although to be fair people need to know how we became awesome...

Why don't you contribute opposed to being negative? What are you doing here camarda? What have you contributed to the forum, ever? I've watched you change from a fairly unsure guy who was sound but got little results and asked question after question throughout his history into a guy that genuinely gets a fair bit of success now but has recently been a bit of a troll, derailing threads left and right with nothing but negativity, something that you're trying to do here.

If I remember correctly you quite liked that misogynist Gunwitch back when you started out here. I'm sure that's quite different now, the thread has nothing to do with self things, it's about the very specific theories out there that struck chords with you.

If everyone is too busy bathing in their own awesomeness, fine. I'll shoot away.

Value theory, probably the first thing that really hit home and started to make things click, way back in the day.

Kino. Learning the importance of touch in creating connections with people was huge.

Realising that what you open with doesn't matter whatsoever. What matters is you and how you say whatever it is you say. I can't remember where I picked this one up at all, it's in Blueprint but I must have picked it up somewhere back when I started before Blueprint was around, someone else might know.

People might think they're awesome now, but the point here is to share ideas, experiences and the like in order to help others. Nobody here can possibly say nothing had any effect on them. Share the specific theories that affected you most.

Adam is ghey. I can't remember if I told you last night but you come across a cunt on the forum. You disagree all the time. You've been into pick up as long as anyone and you realised it didn't solve your problems. Your always going to have problems your always going to have to deal with shit no matter if you can pull birds it not

Come on we both have got a lot out of this community, We've been doing this shit for years, people here are looking for some guidance. They haven't been down the path we've been down.

we should be here to set people straight when they act like chodes. Most of all we should be here encouraging the journey the people here are taking, It's only through doing this shit do get to know about it.

Ps you better shag that pink haired girl she was fit and the only reason I didn't go for her was she was into you, if you can get her mum to join in as well you'd be a legend.

I NEVER take Camarda's rants seriously. I like him as a person and when we do go out (and he doesnt bail out, citing getting pizza as an excuse - gay) we have a good laugh. And for me, that is most important. And with a lot of his comments, I just agree to disagree.

Wish I were out last night.

Back to the OP, I attributed the person I am to different events happening in my life. Some I have shared in this forum. I dont really think anyone can influence me more than my own desire to be happy, content and self-sufficient. And always giving my very best whether as a father, at work, or to my own social surroundings.

i'm 20 and have only read the game, part of the mystery method until it got boring as fuck and watched some of the blueprint. the blueprint i dropped because i had more important things to attend to but it was interesting and phrased shit i thought in a much more coherent and clear way.

i feel like pick up could be interesting and fun but i've learnt very little from it so far. this is probably because on nights out i prefer to get wasted. i never feel like approaching girls, i rely heavily on my well built social circle for fun/girls as some of you guys would put it and i'm fairly insecure about my looks. most people IRL think i'm cocky, love myself, stare at the mirror all day and i'm a player which is funny.

whats changed me the most over the past two years is simply realising in five years time, i want to be proud that i'm a doctor, not that i've bagged this hot girl. who i am, not who i'm with. i've also began to really appreciate the importance of knowledge in the mind which is something i want to expand on with further reading.

That girl you mentioned you can thank me for getting rid of the guy friend ;-)

That was winging I learned it from Pu.