Hey Rebus, Reflex and Jay
I have been talking about my problem with you guys and I have just been reading lots on material since then and the posts on suggestions and tips and I find that my confidence is growing. The biggest feat since then was taking my really sweet 27 yr old teacher(im 25) for coffee. Had a friend who unnknowingly might have acted as a wing but after he left, i dint find myself in a soup. Infact i was able to sustain the conversation for over an hour. I even tried 'looking at you i suppose you dont have to try too hard to get students attention and she laughed'
Even though she is getting married next month and i wish her the world of happiness i am happy about the fact that my situation is not as bad as the first post.
Yesterday at the post office i came across quite a hottie who came from my city and got het chatting without the conversation getting dry.
From these encounters i have many questions which i hope you guys will be able to give me expert opinions on

1. Its easy to talk to someone who has a smile on their face(both my encounters had) but there are some who pay no heed at all and are not even ready to look your way. I come back late from work and many a times there are good looking girls who could use a conversation (i think) but how can one break into such a situation without being creepy.
2. I dont drink so does that mean night game is not suitable for me? I can go to pubs but to me its like whats the point? Besides I am not really into flings so wanna improve my conscious free flowing approachable game techniques, if there are any.
3. At the post office I wanted to do a number close as I know i would have enjoyed a cup of coffee with her later but in my head i thought it would have been too early besides SHE WORKED THERE. how awkward would that have been?? any suggestions?

ROHO