right guys basically i finally have started using material running openers for the girst time properly, my problems before was being too selective and too hesitant. the 3 sec rule really is so important, many times i see a set and say ill go for a piss get myself charged up and go talk to them, only to find that they are talkin with a guy or have left.

so last thurs i went out and ran a few openers they worked really well, me and my m8s appeared to be full playas, we worked the whole club and guys were jus lookin at us like we are the shit! i train alot and so alot of the time i dont drink, but this night we were fking smaashed it was great, but it was such a drinkin session that are energy levels were soo low the next night we cud fuk all, also we are 19 and were surrounded but 21+ girls and guys jus made it alot harder. so wasnt v succesful, although my 2 friends did manage to stop 2 girls and use the gay opener, they were drunk and horny and jus grabbed them sat down as my m8s finger banged them.. i was left like a dick although it got me angry/ jealous and fuelled me to talk to more girls.

anyway after these 2 nights i had not slept at all, i stayed up and on sat was watchin ufc and was lookin forward to gettin to bed. but this girl phoned me wantin me to come to a house part and 1hr away, i am a virgin still so this was a sweet opportunity to get a hot girl, who is of 'high enough standard ' for me to be with ... my m8s jumped in the air and said lets fukin go,i agreed but my low energy made it hard to feel eneregticme. i drove the 1hr to the house got there whilst my m8s got drunk, they came in high energy cos they were drunk i came in mid to low energy,i sat beside the girl and talked abit. i ended up drivin her home. this sounds like im golden, but our conversation was rapport buildin yes but no realy sexual tension. as she got out of the car we hugged... (bitched slapped myself as i write this) and i didnt kiss her.. there was no sexual tension watsover and it jus felt like it wud of been shit. i arranged to meet her this week and need to make sure i dont fuk it up.

basically i find it difficult to raise sexual tension without a bit of alcohol and the transition from rapport or mr sensitive to mr seducer to be difficult, how can u do it when the conversation is very 'meh' and very regular? shud i of jus went for the kiss in the middle of a lull in the conversation or jus not of at all?

one thing i learned if ur goin drink 1 night is ok, but it fuked me on this, if i wasnt so low energy and tired i wud of been soo much sharper and maybe cud of got a f close. i need to raise energy levels when sober so if anyone has ideas it wud be appreicated. thanks guys