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28-05-2009, 11:57 AM
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28-05-2009, 12:20 PM
Like night game, day game is all about being confident. I hardly have problems talking to girls in a shop, on the street etc etc if my questions are around the "do you know where x is", "what time is it", or even off the cuff remarks like "nice shoes", "I like your hair" but escalating further to a #-close is another issue altogether.
I tried a solo day game about a month ago using a direct approach but I wasnt expecting any close cos I was only after building my confidence and I was buzzing by the time i finished. Check this thread out: http://www.puaforum.co.uk/showthread.php?t=347. Try it!
I think the best person that I know who excels at day game is Swype. Hope he will write something up with his advice!
All the best!
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28-05-2009, 05:47 PM
I know exactly what you mean. I have no problem approching anyone at all if I'm out with people or If i've had a fair few to drink later in the night. Soon as I'm walking around and I see someone, I just end up too much in my own head and dont approach.
I'd loved to read how others have overcome this because I reckon its the next step up in the pua journey.
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29-05-2009, 11:03 AM
I am gonna post on this guys as this is something i love and do all the time , it's abit of an epic post and hopefully should help you all out , will be up soon
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29-05-2009, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted by adam
chatted up mcdonalds worker.
was so sleazy. she was polski and pretty. said she was gorgeous. wanted to take her out. she had a boyfriend. did not care atleast i put my toes into the water as such
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That's what Im talking about... I like the "did not care" attitude..!
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29-05-2009, 01:53 PM
Damn I wish I could get more into this day game thing - mega approach anxiety in the day ..scared she might think I'm a rapist...
Couldn't help open a set on the bus today as I was getting off the bus they were talking metabolism "if someone eats a lot of protein, wouldn't their piss turn yellow, due to the increased amount of Urea in their urine?" as I over heard, I made eye contact, smiled and said "interesting conversation"...they smiled, giggled embarissed, they said something like "I know this is a strange conversation to have on the bus"...I commented "you biochemists?"..chatted a bit, before I walked off the bus and we went our seperate ways....
Hey, it's a long way from a day time f-close, but you have to start somewhere!
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01-06-2009, 09:33 PM
Hi Guys-
Does anyone know if swype posted it?!?
cheers sincere.
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02-06-2009, 09:57 AM
Okok here it is , sorry guys , was alittle busy . Just a quick foreword on any advice i give or views i have . I love day game , i do it at every opportunity and get the results i want . If you don't agree with anything i say that's fine but do try to take something on board , plus alot of guys seem to think i know what im taking about ! (little do they know)
Firstly , i'm going to touch lightly on the differences between Day game and Night game as for alot of people this is a grey area .
This is an analogy i gave Sapmi while out day gaming : Take all the knowledge and passion you have for PU . Visualize it and see it as a flame red , spiked ball . When your out at night in a club , you have this ball in your hand and your throwing it about , hitting people , playing catch with your boys ect .
During day game , what we do is take the same knowledge and passion , but mould it into a ice blue , smooth maple top ball . Now instead of throwing this bad boy around and hitting people . This ball glides beside you as you go about your day game business .
To simplify this , do everything that you would normally do , but smooth the edges (more bass and mids , less treble for the musicians out there)
Night game = eratic , fun , exciting and different
Day game = Fluid , interesting , happy go lucky ... cool and collected
My own views on day game :
As im sure alot of you are aware for your brief sessions with day game , it takes more confidence to approach a attractive stranger during the day than io a night in a club . There are afew reasons for this .
1) No alcohol
2) It is alot less expected than in a club on a night out
3) Rejection is alot more apparent in the cold light of day
4) Completely out of your comfort zone
These are the reasons for day game being more difficult but in no way would we consider these 'con's' so to speak . BUT there are definately 'pro's' to day game .
1) It's a hell of alot of fun
2) Once you've done it afew times your confidence will skyrocket
3) Your more likely to get a good idea of how much you like the girl
4) She is guaranteed to remeber you and tell her friends how this awsome guy just made her day when she was out
5) She will be alot less guarded (as long as your approach is spot on)
Hints and Tips !!
Always be cheeky and fun (alittle teasing goes a long way)
Do NOT go in with intensity and intent (stalker much)
Flip the roles (she's the one chatting you up)
Make her talk , never do all the work , allow gaps for her to fill
Plant a 'seed' for a # close , dont just up and ask as this puts her on the spot
The second a day game interaction becomes stale and feels forced , it's gone . During night game if an interaction lags , there's distractions in the club to fill this silence . You are on your own in day game ... So be interesting , funny and charming and keep things flowing smoothly , any stutters , mistakes and hiccups are magnified during day game .
In ... Smooth ... Funny ... Charming ... Flirt ... Number .... Out
Leaving her feeling excited , alittle confused and flustered .
This guy .... Amazing .... He was so charming ... I ... I don't know .... Number ... What ?! ... Exciting .
Pretty simple stuff guys . During the day , don't be afraid to open with an opinion opener btw . Alot of guys have found this very effective , but give direct a try , it can work but you need to be very confident in your core if your going to try that .
If anyone wants to have a mini day game session , gimme a call and ill be happy to go out and have some fun with it and help people out
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02-06-2009, 11:25 AM
My first sarge ever was a day game in the Manchester Arndale Centre and it was the first time I met the guys (Swype, Jynx, K & Madforit) and it was an eye opener. Mad and I went to Next and my first ever proper approach was asking this HB shopper "what dress to get for my niece for her birthday cos she has the same figure as you and maybe similar taste in clothes". We spent the rest 15minutes walking around, chatting about dresses (yukks) but it was fab. Wish i could number close then but she had to rush to catch her train...! And that day Swype came back with #-close from a girl I think in Primark
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02-06-2009, 07:02 PM
Love that crazy ball idea Swype, very interesting.
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