Im not arguing phil im just putting it out there! in an attempy to learn somthing
dont take it as an attack, there is only love in this house

This, as Mystery himself admits, is the concept.


It is then a case of weighing up, 'Do I really wanna get into a conversation with these girls?'

Well you see it with filmstars, get surrounded by yes people and go from fairly normal into being a 'do you know who i am' monster

I guess with a Hot girl over the years having interactions with guys where every guy that talks to her makes some form of communication/ consciously or subconsciously that they find her attractive will cause her percieved value of herself to skyrocket and she will become a premodonna

You have a good point, but sometimes, man just wants some sex from a hot chick without wanting anything else from it..

Very true. Plus the banter can be fun, unless she persists in being rude, then I can't be bothered.

Exactly. A women who isn't a dim-wit should enjoy some playful verbal sparring.

She will be mock-offended, smiling, or errrm smiling underneath.

• bringing them down a peg = I disagree that this is bad ---- instead: way-hey, right on, that's what to do to the overly manicured, perfect hair, fake tanned ho to knock her off her psychological pedestal

• make them feel bad = not directly related! I agree that this is not so great. You could just call her a cheap bitch with a fucked-up dress sense. That would make her feel bad and is a neg, but it isn't stylish and I wouldn't use that as couldn't envisage it leading to success. Maybe it COULD work with holding a ton load of eye contact (confidence) and also said with a smile (playful)? Hmmm.

Works on a girl that is obviously well dressed and has style, said with a smile
perfect Neg

She sounds pretty rank mate.

"overly manicured, perfect hair, fake tanned ho" was my description of the type you see in the self-proclaimed posh clubs, where they have little VIP booths and the like; they def need taken down a peg

I'm more an indie / pop / electronica club chap rather than London's Mayfair posh clubscene

There's a lot of assumptions going on here with how a certain type of looking girl will react to your approach. How about taking each girl as she comes. It's the same old adage gents - don't judge a book by it's cover.