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Originally Posted by nova
the banter can be fun
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Exactly. A women who isn't a dim-wit should enjoy some playful verbal sparring.
She will be mock-offended, smiling, or errrm smiling underneath.
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Originally Posted by Phil
ur point shouldnt be to bring them down a peg, or make them feel bad
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- bringing them down a peg = I disagree that this is bad ---- instead: way-hey, right on, that's what to do to the overly manicured, perfect hair, fake tanned ho to knock her off her psychological pedestal
- make them feel bad = not directly related! I agree that this is not so great. You could just call her a cheap bitch with a fucked-up dress sense. That would make her feel bad and is a neg, but it isn't stylish and I wouldn't use that as couldn't envisage it leading to success. Maybe it COULD work with holding a ton load of eye contact (confidence) and also said with a smile (playful)? Hmmm.