It isnt that easy with some people and we have to acknowledge that and continue to give advice and guidance. The JUST DO IT doesnt cut it with these guys. I know cos a short 2.5 years ago I was in the same boat!
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Cheers for the advice lads. Took her to a restaurant, the whole affair was mediocre. Went back to mine after, she didn't respond well to kino, we watched a movie, I dropped her home. Successfully fucked it up methinks.
Just realised the first bit might have sounded sarky. I genuinely was thanking you for the advice. I fucked up with no kino before going back to mine. It was kinda obvious what I had in mind and we hadn't even kissed yet.
You seriously moving into a friend zone. Next time, start holding her hands which Im surprised you havent done so. Then, move for a kiss. If she still rejects your advances after all these dates, she's playing games. She's not worth your time. Time to move on and DONT sound defeated, her loss. Plenty more Chinese women in China.
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It's cool man, I'm knocking it on the head with this chick. I said if nothing happened after this date then I'm done...gotta stick to my guns. I'll decide whether I want to take the Latvian chick to the zoo tomorrow, also got the option of taking a younger Chinese cutie out for coffee soooo....whatever. Just a shame coz she was such a premium piece.
Didn't help that I woke up this morning ill as hell. Prolly should have re-scheduled for next weekend.
My best mate lives in Shanghai and is getting laid all the time. He just walks up to them in the street and asks them if they speak English... tells them he's a teacher blah blah blah...
He also uses the website plentyoffish.com and some other shanghai party website.
Yea I met this one and the one I laid from plentyoffish. I'll try the do you speak English thing but I still have quite bad approach anxiety. It'd be interesting to know if he had any more success than I did with this girl...