Refl3x & Nova - The cultural thing doesn't make much difference, especially in Shanghai which is very westernised. Maybe Beijing, Hangzhou is different, but being fun out here makes all the ladies want to know you because it stands out so much from the miserable males. Chinese people don't smile much, I'm definately sitting on a gold mine. After the previous responses I texted her last night, I'm seeing her saturday and after kissing I'm going to bring her back to the flat. Movie. Shag. Nice.
AJay - Nice post. (the 2nd one) Though the 1st post made a pretty good point.
Chops - Lol, funnily enough her walking in front was what made me think to hold hands. I make sure she's always beside or behind me, that I make the decision where we go, what we do, when we meet...
Rebus - I noticed I was being too nice guyish so on the last date I said people are different around different people and that she could be a bitch when we're not alone. She knew what I meant but pretended to be offended, I didn't back down and just explained what I meant then said I would never apologise for who I am. I read the reason nice guys finish last is because women are worried they're just being nice to get into the panties so I showed a small amount of the asshole side. We kino a lot, couple of massages, I did modern jive dance classes in England so i've swung her about a few times (for the alpha kino thing) the occasional neck smell. Maybe it's because I'm so new to
pua that it all seems stifled. Or maybe it really is because she's Chinese and I'm Awesome, I mean English.
Once again thanks for the advice, I'll let you guys know what happens on the weekend.
One more note - I can't remember which date but I told her she had to pick me up in a taxi instead of me picking her up. She said no. I said why not? She said Why are you doing this to me? I said I was testing her, that i'd pick her up in the taxi but she had to take me to a restaurant and buy me flowers and chocolates. Then I picked her up on a motorbike that I'd bought a few days earlier. I'm spontaneous, random, fun and I enjoy messing with her head. Things are going well but I'm just pussing out over the first kiss maybe? Ugh.