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Originally Posted by Phil
spot on
i have friends who are female who i have gathered this info from over time
LISTEN TO IT!!!!
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It's not spot on at all, it makes the same fucking mistake too many other sources make and this pisses me off more than most of the advice people give out there.
What she lists as characteristics of nice guys AREN'T characteristics of nice guys. They're characteristics of weak and pathetic guys.
What she lists as characteristics of bad boys are in fact characteristics of a strong person, with the exception of commitment, which merely has to be adjusted to explain that a strong person has high standards.
You can be both nice and strong.
This whole nice guys finish last bullshit is what creates so many dicks. People that think they need to be that way in order to attract others. They don't. This advice being perpetuated over and over merely perpetuates the cycle of people thinking being a dick is what attracts women.