i keep havin dreams wer im sick in love, and wen i wake up

i feel like ive split up with someone! it makes me feel proper vulnerable!

wtf is that all about... NOT HAPPY AT ALL!!

someone give me somethin, i cant shake it

maybe its karma?

AJay

I had some wierd dream last night actually about 2 of my exs n woke up feelin vulnerable as well lol.

You could think: be a pro at pickin up women in waking life, and then enjoy love in your dreams? best of both worlds

Dreams are the subconscious mind essentially filing away the paperwork of the day's thoughts, into the filing cabinet that is your noggin. It's like reconciling the till at the end of the day in a shop. It's a predictable cliche but are you craving getting luvved up and greater intimacy with just one bird?

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i think i would like this maybe 1 day a week

I think your sub-concience mind is trying to tell you something! what your dreams are telling you is that you are insecure about getting intimate with another woman again this from reading your previous post would tell this about you.

What you need to do is grab the bull by the horns and plough on and ditch the slags and get a a proper girlfreind is my advise.

doesnt work like tha mate, ive met less than 5 girls in my life that i would consider GF material

and ive met ALOT of girls

Yeah but why do you think you set such high standards for them to conform to? Don't tell me it's objective and 'cos they're all mental as I won;t believe you. Could it be distancing them as self preservation? Again, a big 'ole cliche.

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no its just i work well to look good, im funny, smart, and everything i can do to better myself i do, so i want a girl who is, fit, funny, strong & good in bed!

i dont have these standards coz IM SCARED i have them coz i wont settle for anythin less then equal!

forcing urself to settle is stupid.

unless a girl makes me flutter! she aint bird material

I would agree finding gf materail is difficult as there are loads of women that are either fucked up from prevoius bad ralationships hence they pass there insecurities and abusive narcostic behaviour towards the next boyfreind

Maybe you need to look at better venues such as yoga classes or art classes you wont find alcholic idoitic chav type women in better establisments as what you want Phill is (quaility) not quantity as at the night clubs or the local bars you only get the above amen!.