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Refl3x 11-04-2011 09:35 AM

complacency?

DjSash 11-04-2011 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by mastere666 (Post 42068)
These 'cunning game tactics' are 1. The old school art of pick-up and 2. for people with no personality.

Surely you aren't some no lifed, geeky, social hermit who needs to use pick-up lines or opinion openers because he has no confidence in who he really is or the value he has to offer people???? well believe it or not 'the game' and mystery method was for the most part designed for people like this. If you have enough friends for a house-party, I personally have confidence in you.

In regards to the girls... dont over-think it... infact don't even think about them. I couldnt even handle reading the whole of your post, it reminded me too much of my old self. Trying to 'plan' social interactions does you no favours, sure if your intelligent enough, you can pull it off. Does it make you an interesting, kool person? Quite the opposite, most would agree.

Anyway having this mindset won't improve you, at least not in the long run. Have fun, and be kool you obviously have friends and people like you for who you are. It's not realising your awesomness and not acting through your own intentions that is the barrier to most guys getting laid.


I think I am closer to the geeky antisocial person you think I am not to what you think I am.
I'm not a complete freak and the fact that I host a House party doesn't mean I have too many good friends. The truth is, I am not very social and that is why I found "The game" and all those things very helpful.

However, I am watching RSD: Blueprint Decoded and I have to say that it is helping me to "be" and not to "do".
The only choice is to be the "alpha male" of the party, and that's my objective.

As I said, I will consider what you all said but I'm not scraping my whole routine. At least I'm gonna try it and if it doesn't work, I'll be more direct.

PostScript 11-04-2011 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by DjSash (Post 42091)
I think I am closer to the geeky antisocial person you think I am not to what you think I am.
I'm not a complete freak and the fact that I host a House party doesn't mean I have too many good friends. The truth is, I am not very social and that is why I found "The game" and all those things very helpful.

However, I am watching RSD: Blueprint Decoded and I have to say that it is helping me to "be" and not to "do".
The only choice is to be the "alpha male" of the party, and that's my objective.

As I said, I will consider what you all said but I'm not scraping my whole routine. At least I'm gonna try it and if it doesn't work, I'll be more direct.

Yeah the guys are right but it's hard to see it at first, you get in your head and worry that you'll have nothing to say and that people will judge you and you'll freeze up. It's important to know that in craving routine what you're actually doing is you're using structure to find state, whereas in fact structure follows state organically. If you need a little crutch for structure in the meantime, look at Juggler's ebook, personally I think his philosophy is rather elegant in many ways. I use bits of it and not just for pickup.

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piers147 11-04-2011 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 41944)
1984, George Orwell.
On The Road, Jack Kerouac.
Being and Nothingness, Jean-Paul Sartre.
The Art of War, Sun Tzu.
The Dice Man, Luke Rhinehart.
The Hitch Hikers Guide to The Galaxy, Douglas Adams.
Philosophical Investigations, Wittgenstein.
Catch-22, Joseph Heller.
Brave New World, Aldous Huxley.
Clockwork Orange, Anthony Burgess.
Alice In Wonderland, Lewis Carroll.
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Hunter S. Thompson.
Crime and Punishment, Leo Dostoyevsky.
The Complete Stories, Isaac Asimov.

When you've got through them, let me know. I got some more for ya!


Peace,

kowalski

A very impressive reading list ive read most of these books are you a fan of tennesee williams stanley Kowalski it just hit me the name that you use is from street car name disire a great play and film and the main character is kowaslski do you find him a good role model i think you do do?

Well i think a lot of the guys on this site should watch the film and they will learn how to act in a very masculine manner a very alpha directness that will have the womem drolling in total fucking admiration !

As Brando plays it brilliantly and his wife cant get enough of his antics hey presto also i would reccomend reading brandos biography brando unzipped.

PostScript 11-04-2011 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by piers147 (Post 42100)
A very impressive reading list ive read most of these books are you a fan of tennesee williams stanley Kowalski it just hit me the name that you use is from street car name disire a great play and film and the main character is kowaslski do you find him a good role model i think you do do?

Well i think a lot of the guys on this site should watch the film and they will learn how to act in a very masculine manner a very alpha directness that will have the womem drolling in total fucking admiration !

As Brando plays it brilliantly and his wife cant get enough of his antics hey presto also i would reccomend reading brandos biography brando unzipped.

I'm no Brando expert but anytime someone mentions his name I think of this interview. The sheer aura of the guy and some of his behaviours in the interview are fascinating to watch.



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sapphire 12-04-2011 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by DjSash (Post 41976)
"Lets play 5 questions game, who ever wins, gets a massage"
She should say: "sure!"

If a girl allows you and her to end up in a bedroom alone at a party then shes as good as telling you shes up for it. I mean sod the 5 questions game - your supposed to kiss her at that point.

DjSash 12-04-2011 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by sapphire (Post 42259)
If a girl allows you and her to end up in a bedroom alone at a party then shes as good as telling you shes up for it. I mean sod the 5 questions game - your supposed to kiss her at that point.

well, I hope i'm wrong but as I said, she is my friend and i'm sure she would come with me. And I guess I'm too afraid of rejection if I go ahead and kiss her at that point. That's why I made up all that routine.

Maybe I am treating her as being too innocent by not realizing my intentions while bringin her to my room but you know, maybe she thinks it's just like friends :S...

I'll see how I feel the day of the party and if I have the guts.

legend 12-04-2011 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by DjSash (Post 42262)

I'll see how I feel the day of the party and if I have the guts.

You will never get laid if you rely on "that day" you have guts or not. Just grow some balls and go for it!


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