Hi Everyone I am new to this forum and I need some advice

[crystalmethod]

I am a good looking guy but had serious confidence and social issues in the past however I have got over that now. My biggest problem is that I am very fussy with the women I take interest in she must be attractive and intelligent not one or the other lol. So today I met a girl who works in my local bank that I could not flaw her she was a 9 and extremely intelligent her personality was amazing ect ect. So while I was talking to her I did what I should do be confident funny make her laugh send mixed signals demonstrate higher value ect ect and I got loads of indicators of interest from her. Now this is the first Time ever I have used this method on a woman after reading the Game and Mystery Method I used to say nothing and get nothing from women. So this was the first time I used the Mystery Method and I could tell she was interested in me she didn't want me to leave while she was sorting out my bank account I could tell she was trying to drag it out for as long as possible and didn't want me to leave I was in there for over an hour not bad for my first time using mystery method! Now the only problem is I didn't ask for her number or let her know I was interested reason being I did not think it was appropriate since its her work place and she was around other workers in a professional bank.

So now what do i do? I do I cant just walk in there again for no reason lol


any advice would be much appreciated

thanks

[Breaker]

Originally Posted by crystalmethod

Now the only problem is I didn't ask for her number or let her know I was interested reason being I did not think it was appropriate since its her work place and she was around other workers in a professional bank.

Appropriate in who's eyes? worst case scenario, she'll tell you it's not appropriate and be a little embarrassed.

More likely she'll make an excuse and be flattered.

Possibly she'll give you her number.

Either way doing it would have given you some closure and confidence.

Originally Posted by crystalmethod

So now what do i do? I do I cant just walk in there again for no reason lol

If you want honest advice, doing this and asking for her number would be the best advice you could get. Just be confident and don't worry about the outcome as it's going to be one of same outcomes as the previous situation or any other situation you ask a girl for her number. If she says no, she won't want to make a scene at work and you can just smile and say "oh well was worth a try" and leave.

This is the most ballsy attractive way you can come across without being creepy. Trying to meet outside the workplace would come across stalker like.

[simplemike]

Originally Posted by crystalmethod

I am a good looking guy but had serious confidence and social issues in the past however I have got over that now. My biggest problem is that I am very fussy with the women I take interest in she must be attractive and intelligent not one or the other lol. So today I met a girl who works in my local bank that I could not flaw her she was a 9 and extremely intelligent her personality was amazing ect ect. So while I was talking to her I did what I should do be confident funny make her laugh send mixed signals demonstrate higher value ect ect and I got loads of indicators of interest from her. Now this is the first Time ever I have used this method on a woman after reading the Game and Mystery Method I used to say nothing and get nothing from women. So this was the first time I used the Mystery Method and I could tell she was interested in me she didn't want me to leave while she was sorting out my bank account I could tell she was trying to drag it out for as long as possible and didn't want me to leave I was in there for over an hour not bad for my first time using mystery method! Now the only problem is I didn't ask for her number or let her know I was interested reason being I did not think it was appropriate since its her work place and she was around other workers in a professional bank.

So now what do i do? I do I cant just walk in there again for no reason lol


any advice would be much appreciated

thanks

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