Don't fill yourself up with information, go out and learn what works for you and then hone it down to his own particular way of going about things?

Information is power, learn as much as you possibly can from as many sources as you can then work out what works for you. Don't accept what anyone says works best or doesn't, different things work better for some and worse for others, Phil uses a dominating presence and tone that others can't get to work at all for example.

Learn, practice, hone things down to what works for you, apply. Don't listen to a word anyone else says, use and try everything while continuing to use what works best for you.

Thanks guy's, you actually help'd me to get my mind straight.. and so at start i am going to use BCB method, and also i am going to get her friends as mine so i could get into her circle.

Well definately i don't want to marry her, i am just always looking for some kind of challange, well if she is the most beautiful girl at work then atleast i need to try to get her.. usualy the same is at the clubs and pool party's and if i manage to get her it's pretty much just the satisfaction of the thing that i could..

and by the way i also as RLAjay think that information is power and you always have to learn everything from everywere.. but to take and prepare for 2 months is not exactly my way

Usually i just like to analize the situation on spot and then to act as its best for me..
once even there was a huge bath house party and there was this one girl who was the most good looking in the place and pretty much all the time she was surrounded by about 5 guy's and she piss'd off all of them who tried to be the alfa males.. so i actually came to her while she was smoking, ask'd for light and said that i am not interested in her and in any women her tonight.. and after about hour and half we where together in bed, but i got it only to kissing..

what ever advice you choose to take from this thread (and there is some good advice here) be sure not to follow any particular system, style or plan. Some people advocate turning into a PUA geek, truth be told thats the last identity you want to build. Everyone's different in this game what works for some wont work for others. For me this journey is about self development, sure that means you have to make changes, but often these are habits you need to change, i.e. talking to more people, going out more, actually TALKING to girls and I mean during the day, at work, down the highstreet, on the bus, when ur doing ur flipping food shopping the more spontaneous the better. I think alot of people (myself included) have made the mistake of changing the wrong things. you can read 100 pua books, but thats not really going to help you. you need first hand experience.

I have the master plan of all master plans for you - sit at the bar order a coffee and talk to her - BOOM. Breaker Method, heard it here first.