Originally Posted by legend

Of course we create attraction. I create attraction by being an interesting person. Is that fake? No, because whatever I create to be an interesting guy is based on my own personal goals, enjoyment, etc. Subsequently, girls will be attracted to me. Now unless you can convey this to your target, then you cant create an attraction. And to convey this, you need to be able to stay in a conversation. Your issue isnt that you cant create attraction or you are not interesting enough, your issue is being able to stay in a conversation long enough to create that attraction, to build that comfort and then close that deal. Opener (direct, indirect, canned) will only get you thus far. But once that is initiated, what do you say? Which pebble can you throw in? What will be your next hook point? Be attentive in the conversation. There are 1001 things to talk about and to get the conversation flowing. And the key is to use that to insert how interesting a person you are. As with other things, it takes practice and experience and perseverance....!

Originally Posted by Blanca

Attraction isn't something you do, it's something you are.

Escalation is easy. Kino kino kino, then kiss her. It doesn't need to be any more complicated.