Ok, I actually posted this point yesterday on Midas' "I want my control back.." FR, but I thought I'd post it as a separate thread.

Anyway, to my point (which is probably not gonna be any revelation to you guys, but I figured it was worth posting anyways):

Just before Christmas, my GF split up with me using all sorts of lame excuses, and for about a week, I chode-ily sent her text messages saying such stuff as "we can make it work" "but I love you!" "what can i do to change this!" etc etc.
But having [re]discovered Game, and then putting it into practice, I got over her quite quickly (some of you may have seen my posts about getting over my oneitis etc.).

Now, what is interesting is that now that I am not chasing her, she wants me back!

Ever since that night that I told her that I didn't want to get back with her, she has been constantly texting me. I have been texting back, because we were friends before we started going out, but I have done so without much enthusiasm and I have kept any interactions with her entirely platonic.

But then she'll go and start dropping hints, and trying to flirt etc, but I just pass over it. And guess what?
That makes her do it even more!!!

Through this experience, and from reading the posts on Midas' thread, I have come to realise an awesome power that we have over women who have a genuine interest and emotional investment in us.
And that power is ATTENTION!

Attention is what women want! That's why they wear tiny little lycra pants and have their tits hanging out when they go out on the town. It's why they ask dumb rhetorical questions like "Do i have a fat-ass?"

As soon as we give them that attention and placate their needs all the time, they are just gonna get bored - it's Mystery's Cat-String theory!!!

So if you have a girl who is obviously into you, and yet suddenly starts to flake or play you, I'd say there is a good chance that it is because you are giving her too much attention.

Again, I doubt this has come as much of a revelation to many of you, but I felt it was worth sharing...

Much love,

Craigus

An interesting observation. I'll move this to the articles section.

I have noticed this theory at work with the boss's daughter.. She always flirts with me, but if I throw her too much attention sometimes, she backs off or goes a bit cold. So I just leave her for a while and she comes running back every time, flirting more and more.

I wonder if women actually know this information. Like, if I confronted a girl about this attention theory, I bet she would deny it straight away!

But when someone adores you alot, would you get sick of it and back off (like a lot of women do), or would you just keep lovin the attention?

Thanks Tw1sted - I wasn't sure as it was worthy as a tip or article - just something I had noticed, and I wanted to share my theory.

Quantum Physics..everything in the universe is comprised of Energy

Auras...psychics can see them..what is an Aura..its an energy field that surrounds all living cells--this is fact. (the energy field bit)

Quantum Physics -- thought is energy, the act of thinking about somthing can change its outcome.

Therfore-- girls like attention, men like attention -- this is because their positive thought of you is producing Energy that is being absorbed by your Energy field.

Not entirely sure everything in your statement there is proven or even accepted as theories.

I agree attention is not logical in a girl. I was texting this girl arranging to go out sometime and this seemed to be pure logistics 'I want to but I have work that day' so I send another text 'ok this thing that day is also available' and no reply. too much attention, just gonna ignore her now

Im a Genius, sit back and in 20 years it will be fact

This and many other posts like it all narrow down to one simple basic principal.

I noticed you mentioned 'Mysterys', 'The cat string principle'.

Very true.

You let the cat have the string it gets bored and wanders off.

Give it to her, take it away, make her chase it, give it to her, take it away, make her chase it.

I was explaining this to some girls this week who rumbled me PU'ing them, see my post in field reports, anyway, I told one of them about this and I thought she was gonna blow a gasket. Then her friend said that is so true, that would so work on me you are all bastards.