But we're also assuming that it's him calling and hanging up on the mobile. I get loads of those kinds of calls every day from debt agencies and things (when you sign up for a credit card online, ALWAYS check the "don't pass my information on to third parties" box - *sigh*). Unless we know it's him, it's hard to presume.

And so he still shops at the same grocery store that you used to together. Is that a crime? Maybe he likes the vegetables.

Most of this is circumstantial. As you've stated, he's not spoken to you, so I wouldn't consider him a threat.

I'd try talking to him and setting him straight, and if that doesn't work, then consider getting authorities involved

Alternatively pay me 1k in cash and i will personally dissuade him from bothering you again

Sounds like he's in the States mate (store, expressway, cell, etc...) Good luck getting a return ticket under a grand

In accordance to penal law circumstantial evidence tends to be considered less important, but since this is a civil matter it's customary to use circumstantial evidence in civil court to establish liability.
So even if it's merely circumstantial (but weird indeed) legally she could prove in a civil procedure that he is stalking her.

And do you think that this laws were made just that anybody could prove that someone is stalking them? I believe not, in this case there are all the legal extremes to press charges.

The fact is that the stalker tends to interpret everything as an advance.
e.g. he calls you, you answer and then he hangs up: to him this means that you were expecting his call.
So talking to him even if you tell him to stay away for him could be interpreted as a green light.

You may want to speak to him before pressing charges and/or calling the police, but go with a friend or two and meet him in a public place.

How about jj smooth comes to the gym with you and have a word with him and tell him to keep away from you because me and you are going out.
If he kicks up a fuss he will be taken down with a bit of unarmed combat.

Well thats an IOI, suggest you move into A3 kowalski, no need to DHV hahahaha

We've already given the most solid advice. You need to follow it up do something police related. OMG Check this, my little sister says to me that she's getting a tattoo of her boyfriend's name! This guy's name is Pete. I mean Come On, do you think she should get it done?

No. Pete's a silly name

I suppose though if it all fucks up she can add "r rabbit" too it and get away with it

I believe the term used is 'oneitis'.

The Advice next is stop attention whoring on a pua forum, unless you are going to post pictures of yourself