I've been seeing a girl recently for a number of weeks now, she's pretty cool, when we go out drinking we have a good time and pretty good sex. But she seems to want something more serious than I do, we've been out doing 'couples' things and to be honest, I feel uncomfortable doing that shit. Maybe if she was the right girl I'd feel differently about it.

I don't want to make her feel that i've used her for sex. It's never an easy subject to bring up with somebody but how do you guys go about calling things off gently?

Is there really a gentle way of telling a girl something she doesn't want to hear? All you can do is be honest with her mate. Tell her straight exactly what you are telling us. It may be uncomfortable, but at least you and her know where you stand.