Alright everyone. I do pretty good with the ladies. I'm no Casanova, but I certainly know how to work my way around a clit or two. On the most part, I've got good confidence when it comes to girls.

BUT, there is one type, that really makes me speechless and completely destroys my game. I don't know if you have a technical term for them. But it's when a drunk HB 8-10 girl will blatantly hit on me and say how hot I am. You know when your walking through the club and a hot girl notices you and shouts "OMG COME HERE YOU FITTY!". The type that will start grinding you or sumin. For some reason, I get all embarrassed and don't know what to say or do back.

Why do I find this so intimidating? I'm usually so cheeky and witty with girls. Yet when I meet this type, everything changes. I hope I've explained this situation well enough.

The only way to react correctly to this is being direct.

Very direct and sexual - she's alteady laid her cards on the table.

Pull her towards u with your arm around her waist. Work the sexual banter. Hold eye contact, your face inches from hers. Early on, spin her around. Direct sexual language.

No more Mr Funny Guy.

Is that you, Phil?

Thanks Rebus. That all seems so obvious now you put it like that. She's already, as you put it, laid her cards on the table. So there's no need to f*ck about at this point. I can see myself learning a lot here. I've got game, but it can definitely do with a bit of sharpening up in some areas. Cheers mate.