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Default A Moral Dilemma - 04-01-2011, 01:56 PM

Ok, I'll be the first to admit that typically, my moral compass points pretty much southwards; but recently I've found myself in a situation that I'm not 100% sure how to handle.

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Met a girl in a local club about a month ago, k-closed and number closed, and we've been chatting a lot since. Pretty much daily. She always instigates when I go online on chat. The chats themselves has been escalated quite a fair amount on both sides (she's gone from putting a "x" at the end of texts and chats and things to "xxxxxxxx heart" for example, as well as the subtle but obvious innuendo); we've met up out and about a few times since first meeting and it's always gone well; and she's a solid 9, if not a 9.5.

Now, here's the issue. Despite only being 22, she's married with a two year old.
I'm pretty sure I could comfortably f-close her in the next couple of meetings if I wanted, but part of me thinks that I have to consider the home-wrecking.
Part of me thinks that could just do it, chances are the hubby would be none the wiser and we'd all just trundle along with our lives; but the other part of me thinks that I could fuck someone's life up.

Anyone been in a similar position?

What are your thoughts?


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Default 04-01-2011, 02:00 PM

she is gonna do it with sumone either way, but its on ur head, if u was that guy.... what would u want u to do.

she is a slut, plainly, i wouldnt do it, ive been put in that EXACT situation... only difference was it wernt his kid but he looked after it as his own.

moraly i think life pays u back what u give. id say to her, look ive had a moral re think. and ur out of order, and i cant do it.

but its ur call squire. ur obviously capable, find another (altho i say this if she is smokin i my male instinct could compromise)


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Default 04-01-2011, 02:10 PM

Like I said, she's a 9 - 9.5 (depending on your prefs)

To be honest, I expect I'll go there. You only live once afterall


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Default 04-01-2011, 02:33 PM

To be fair, I didn't know she was married until a little way down the line.

And I'm currently running at an f-close every 10 days or so (based on the last 4 months), so I reckon I'm doing alright


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Default 04-01-2011, 03:15 PM

With an f-close every 10 days you'd have to be a greedy man to be shagging a married woman.

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Default 04-01-2011, 03:22 PM

im running at a fuck close approximately every 10 days ... Really tho... how do u even approximate every 10 days?

that means a monday then a thursday then a sunday then a wednesday and so on.

this would have sounded better... i fuck alot of women! please refrain from statistics and shit, its makes somethin fun sound so mundane


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Default 04-01-2011, 03:47 PM

I don't see the problem. It’s her problem to deal with the peripheral shit not yours, if she wants to screw other guys behind her husband’s back that’s her look out. You’re not planning on moving in and taken on the kid so do her and move on. Chances are her husband won't even find out.

PUA are not hypnotising girls, she's fully in charge of her own moral compass if she wants to behave like a slut, treat her like one.

Screening out married women, hmm. Not sure about this. Does that me you're going to ignore the 10 in the corner? If you've done a good job on her is she going to tell you she's married, of course not .

You do what you feel is right you don't need a forum for this, if it was me I'd do her a couple of times and move on but hey I do Tesco’s checkout girls I'm probably not a good example.
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Default 04-01-2011, 03:49 PM

Just based on the total in the last four months, not every 10 days like clockwork, lol

A couple have been questionable, but generally they're worth the effort


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Default 04-01-2011, 04:36 PM

Me, personally, would say don't do it. Life is complicated when your single and seeing a few girls... funk bringing divorce and the CSA into it.
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Default 04-01-2011, 04:50 PM

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moraly i think life pays u back what u give.
It does to a certain extent Phil, and I've heard you talk about karma before. But it is far from an exact science. In fact I'd say it's mostly bollocks; even if it does serve a good moral purpose.

It's like the whole heaven and hell thing; completely invented by the church to make us do as we are told. It's mostly superstitious/supernatural nonsense.

A baby that dies of cot death: what did it do wrong to deserve that? Some karma enthusiasts will even go as far as to say, "Well, it must have done something wrong in a previous life." Hmmmm, not very convincing.

While obviously there is a tendency to attract negative situations by behaving badly, it's not a certainty. There are countless examples of people who have gone through life fucking people over and have got away Scott free. We are asked to believe that they will be punished accordingly in the next life. Hmmmm, Midas smells a rat!

I think that we should try our best to go through life, having as much fun as possible as long as it doesn't harm others. I believe we should seek to do good and avoid making others suffer. But I don't think we should do this because there is some mystical pie in the sky energy at play. I think we should do it because we are all in the same boat.

In this way we could say that the most moral person is an atheist who does good and avoids bad. He does not believe that he will be rewarded or punished yet he chooses to behave correctly simply because it is the right thing to do and the thought of another human being suffering displeases him.
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