There is a girl i would like to keep for a while, i really like her and we havent even had sex yet, we like eachother and we are both attracted to eachother, the problem is that she figured out that im a player, i was dating 3 of her classmates, shes seen some picture evidence and she heard some rumours about me what a big asshole I am ... she is simply afraid to start a relationship with me ... what should i do ?

She told me that the girl must be very bright but also very stupid to have fallen for me, when she kisses me she says that she doesnt know why shes kissing me and that she is stupid ... im being serious, she once even told me to let her be cuz im a player but despite her words she always comes back to me, i dissapointed her several times as well, i lost her trust, she does not consider me as a trustful person, its all fucking wrecked but i want that girl ! :P

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okay seriously if she has something concrete I'd go down the love you don't want to lose you route blady blady bla

from what you've wrote it looks like she has nothing just play down stuff and the rest just admit you're man, what does she want a guy afriad of his shadow that loves 'dirty dancing'

Use what you've learnt damn it

Does she want to wait forever close her, shes got the guy she always wanted she is in danger of blowing it

i dont get you ? should i start a topic with her about us that she needs to trust me more because i really like her and need her ?? im not good at this stuff ...

She is totally crazy im serious lol, she sometimes tries to proove me that she is cool by telling me bullshits about other guys and stuff lol, she uses those jealousy bullshits, acts arrogant as she doesnt care about me but inside she fucking likes me soo much, she sometimes says some crap and she expects that i will say even bigger crap to make myself even cooler lol, but we always have nice conversations full of laughter ! ) i just need to make her fucking love me cuz i deserve her love ))

Knave, you worry me already.

I wouldn't be. I'm here to learn and in all honestly really new to putting into practice the skills I'm developing.

I was hitting this from the side of the girl losing the prize with her doubts but if this is bad advice then I'll stand down from this kind of advice until i'm at a higher level.

or maybe I simple didn't fully understand, last night was a long night of disappointment, which is pretty much why I'm here

Exactly if your at the stage of disappointment perhaps you should hold back the advice until you've learnt?

I admire your enthusiasum but you need to take your time until you really get something naturally.

Hey no problem

Good luck BOUNCER161 I'm sure someone will be along to give you advice that won't result in losing the girl

don't chase her. Some girls get a real ego boost out of playing the player. Let her know how you feel and that you have good intentions but tell her to take it or leave it. Be willing to walk away and let her see that. But let her know that she would be losing out. The fear of loss is your friend.