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Default Hey... - 28-12-2010, 03:31 PM

So I'm at this stage where I'm very much moving from my introverted youth to some sublime introverted/extroverted duality. Alot of things in my head have just slotted together and aligned

Any tips or common pitfalls?
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Default 30-12-2010, 01:13 PM

Well I think we can all agree, experience is required to refine the matrix of synaptic connections...


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Default 30-12-2010, 10:37 PM

Harreh, you imply that the path to PUA is partially a function of a sliding scale from introversion towards extroversion. So, focussing on that point alone...

When using extremely extroverted behaviour, there was an unusual night this year in which I was so hyped up that a 2-set said I was too crazy, too hyper, and I generally was on too hyper a level (was just too much extroversion + small amount of alcohol: a Zebedee character) to be on form.

So I see good game in knowing when to hold back some of the energy levels of extroversion and when to absolutely max it out.

Furthermore, I reckon that a PUA lifestyle can work well with ambiversion, rather than just total extroversion :-
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Ambiversion is a term used to describe people who fall more or less directly in the middle and exhibit tendencies of both groups. An ambivert is normally comfortable with groups and enjoys social interaction, but also relishes time alone and away from the crowd.

Extroversion and introversion - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
That way you can spend time alone to read stuff on this forum and elsewhere, think about your feelings, reflect on your game after each night, strategise, and just generally have reflective time to sharpen the sword.
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Default 31-12-2010, 12:42 PM

hi there...

TIP:get out and practice 4 times a week
Downfall:spending all day on fourms

life is short, get out and enjoy it


dont worry theres another six around the corner...
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Default 31-12-2010, 05:26 PM

when introverts are backed into a corner they out do the extroverts


Experiment, Handle Rejection and Master your Attitude.
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Default 31-12-2010, 05:51 PM

So true Rebus; there is high energy then there is nervous energy. You don't want to fall into the latter. Women like guys who are calm. I like to party and have fun but I also do very well when I go out on a date with a girl to a very low-energy classy bar and don't drink.
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