guys i need some advice.

9 times out of 10 i fail the shit test or cant penetrate the bitch sheild.

i cant stand it when a bitch gets mouthy and it just triggers something in me to counter it in the same way. Even when i try and hide it and put on a smile, its blatantly fake and they see through it...

have you guys come across the shit test and if so how have you dealt with it in internally before you even open your mouth to react?

Thanks.
Y45

be a twat back but laugh and hi five her or something. DO NOT INVADE HER SPACE. Be cocky, shit test just exagerate her point, i did this last night, a girl said to me, you not been getting some lately? So rather than bragging i said, wel no i havent had any in 19 years, which she knows is a blatent lie. Hope it helps

Why would you care if someone you hardly know is rude to you?

Know the difference between rudeness and a shit test.

If its a shit test, I usually tell them they're making a bad first impression.

If they're just plain rude, I walk away.

i've i be a twat back (which i naturally end up doing) it pisses me off and i just lose interest in her. Basically she has won because i fail her shit test. looking back on a previouse situation i can see that i may have invaded her "space". i started kino but she just looked at me like "did you just fucking touch me you prick?" lol. then she gave me that up and down look ... not cool. i think i gave her a strange look back like your not all that love.



i would care if someone i dont know is rude because its not normal to be rude with someone you dont know. plus i'd spoke to this girl before and stuff so it was almost un called for but she was being a bitch when she didnt need to.

please tell me the difference between the two (just so im clear).



what would you do if you couldnt walk away, like for example if she is a mutual friend of your friends and is sitting with your friends and you?

Before you penetrate the bitch, you have to penetrate the shield. Just try not to test the shit .

The difference is that a shit test might indicate they're interested, but they're sizing you up.

If they're just plain rude, "did you just fucking touch me" with words or a look, then they're A: not interested and B: not worth it.

You need to be able to spot which is which.

Don't stick to the game rules so rigidly, some girls just aren't worth it - know when to eject.

thanks guys i guess experience will teach me the difference.

Nameless: thanks for that! nice advice! when are we meeting up dude! text me!

I'd generally just call her up on it...

For example, if she's looking you up and down negetively (sizing you up) then just say something like "If you want to know my credentials then just ask. I'm 6'1, size 10 feet, scorpio, like pizza and am generally a dick...But the kind thats hard to hate. Now are you going to continue staring or buy me a drink eh?"

If shes responds negetively to your kino by saying "Did you just fucking touch me?!" then hit her back with "I did, am glad you noticed. Some say I have a gentle touch but have you seen my hands?! They're manly and clearly not gentle."

If the woman is worth it then she would find it impressive that you don't flake or bite back. If she's a rude bitch then just say your goodbyes and leave. Remember that other people in the place your at will be watching...Don't want to give off bad vibes.

Yes. I honestly don't remember a time in which I have negged or got through a bitch shield and laid that same girl. The maximum I have got is to neg her back and walk away with my pride intact. I think it is a PUA myth; if someone likes you they are genuinely nice to you. If it becomes such hard work, then is it really worth it? My attitude is usually; "Hey, I like you, you like me, as soon as it gets any more complicated than that, I am AWAY!"

I don't think you need to spend any amount of time caring what people who don't matter to you think of you. Thats my personal opinion. Granted, it can be a natural reaction to get upset about any insult. I don't think this girl should matter to you, and that her opinion of you should speak volumes in your mind. It sounds like it does matter though..

A shit test is when you know she's interested. Rudeness is direct insults, usually repeated. I like how the other guys have explained it in this thread.

I'd turn my back to her and talk to someone else, or if she's opposite, ignore anything she said and move the conversation on to something else.