Hey guys, not posted in a long time. Been busy with life and the gaming side of things has unfortunately been left out of it. Anyways, I have a question. I live in a small town which only has the grand total of 1 bar and 1 club. And I wouldnt even call this club...a club. So, as the town being small and the places to go and have fun being limited. Everyone goes to said places. My main question is...Is this a good thing or bad thing? Considering if/when I open sets one week and they turn out good/bad can I do it again the next week? Have any of you guys come across the same problem?

On a side note. Im currently talking to this girl Ive met on a couple of nights out. Now talking to her via facebook. She seems quite keen, being flirty and always wanting to talk to me. She has a boyfriend though. Going to be seeing her out on Saturday. Should I persue or? And if so, is there game for already taken girls?

Under the circumstances beware of tall muscular and/or boyfriends.

Also, you're getting a preview of how trustworthy the girl is. A LTR with her is at your own risk.

I've seen her boyfriend. Unfortunately his very 'chode' like. And I think she might be looking elsewhere for a reason. Im not looking for a LTR, just a bit of fun. Which I would make clear under the circumstances...

Maybe better not to bother then. You could really end up hurting the poor fellow... but if they happen to split up some time soon... then by all means.

You know how I feel about taken women. If he can't inspire loyalty in her then either she's a shitbag, or they're gonna break up as soon as the relationship gets pressured slightly anyway.

I'd draw the line at married women though. Then, the same logic may apply... but there's a greater sense of guilt you'd feel y'know? I just don't wanna be that guy.

As with going to the same venue... It has it's advantages if you can game the staff [Surprisingly easy... Most people are just dicks to staff]. it also has it's risks as with failed sets, something I've had a lot of during my game journey. Overall it makes sense to say strike a balance! Have your regular haunt, but try to branch out when you can.

depends my local bars have the same people in every week and i go there to chill/watch football. i don't really bother sarging when i'm there but living so close to town i have plenty of options so have the luxury of being able to do this.

if them bar/club are your only options the i suppose you will have to.

unless the guy is a personal friend or they are married then you may aswell game it up. Why should you miss out just because fate dictated that she met him before meeting you. If you are a better candidate she will swap to you, thats how women work. tree to tree. most girls seem to have boyfriends, the choice is with the girl at the end of the day.

Thanks for the replies/advice guys...Have been talking more with this girl. Shes been on and off with this boyfriend of hers so I think it's going to make things easier.

I'm out tomorrow night in the local bar and club so shall post results with both this girl and gaming with people I know and/or know of!