You know how I feel about taken women. If he can't inspire loyalty in her then either she's a shitbag, or they're gonna break up as soon as the relationship gets pressured slightly anyway.

I'd draw the line at married women though. Then, the same logic may apply... but there's a greater sense of guilt you'd feel y'know? I just don't wanna be that guy.

As with going to the same venue... It has it's advantages if you can game the staff [Surprisingly easy... Most people are just dicks to staff]. it also has it's risks as with failed sets, something I've had a lot of during my game journey. Overall it makes sense to say strike a balance! Have your regular haunt, but try to branch out when you can.