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I cant seem to gain access to camp bravo. I get turned away every time. Is there a specific skill level you need? I think i have 20 or so charisma. the wiki didnt help me out so im asking you fine gentleman. All help is appreciated

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I would reccomend the opposite! Just go out and start approaching women strangers until you feel comfortable with doing it.As you are never going to learn how to game women if you dont push yourself to approach women. That was how I learned.

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Originally Posted by stonecastle (Post 131459)

Unfortunately I have never had an ex partner! Though I have come very close to getting a relationship with a woman several times over the past 40 years.

What did you learn, positive-experience wise, given this excerpt above?

To quote another PUA gaming is only as hard as you make it! If you keep putting off approaching women then you will never learn! The key is to do as a lot of approaches and practice what you have learnt.

That's fine, but you're admitting you're quoting someone. What did you learn?

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Originally Posted by Buzz9 (Post 132195)

Check out some Jordan Peterson videos on Social Anxiety.

Ah yes, Jordan Peterson, a man who has clearly mastered his own anxiety

Hi,
I would agree with the guys above. You seem to be an introvert person like me. It is too hard to start by approaching strangers on the street. So I started by approaching strangers at work. First, I made eye contact once or twice with the girls I felt attracted to. Then the next day or two I approchex them. As introvert person, I had to think and prepare my approach. I even wrote what I would say. I had some good response from them.

Other thing that worked for me:
- The three seconds rules. When I see someone I want to approach, I try to go within five seconds (having prepared my approached the previous night, lol). If you wait too long the anxiety will grow bigger and bigger until you shit on you and your legs shakes, lol
- I imagine that it is a video game. You are controlling your avatar in a video game. This tricks my mind.
- Take rejection with laugh and smile. You will be rejected, so, take it with a laugh. When I get rejected I laugh at my awkwardness, never take it personal. Every approach makes you stronger.

I have been reading advice from introvertalpha.com, there are a lot of PUA hate and BS in it, but I took some great advice from it.

You are already doing great by being proactive and conscious about the area of your personality you need to improve. Love yourself for that dude, you're great!