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Loke · 05-12-2010, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by palacim

i disagree , girs like bad guys, im not looking for LTR so no need to be most honest person on the planet, i have friend who is student and as soon as he says he is student they leave him alone ...

if im not into LTR then why would I be that honest with them ?
who do i knw if them girls are honest with me ? if not then why whould i be honest and let myself down ?

thats what AFC type guy does ... being honest and expecting it to work ....
i wish honesty would work but it honesty fails....

Honesty got nothing with why you fail, if you think your personality and life is unattractive to girls, why not the fuck sort yourself out? Rather than make up a something to make them like someone else...your imaginary alter ego is pulling girls...not you.

Take a good look at yourself, why are you not attractive to other people, then maybe just maybe you might find some insight and become a better person for it.

Phenom · 05-12-2010, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by palacim

im not realy investing time on her,and any other time i spend on this thread is not purly becasue of her and her case... the quesion is generic and what i learn from here wil improve my PUA skills overall ...

so what do you tell girls if you are single ?
do you simply say you are single ? but girls think u are boring if you are single ...
ofcourse i do invest time and money on girls, but not on this one anymore ...
im creating fake senarios? asif everyone on this planet is honest and blieve in honesty .. dnt tell me honesty is best policy ... I was told the same in schools but i learnt by experience that honesty is not best policy .
simple prove is when people say "honesty is best policy ". what they actually mean is that honesty is not best policy and we are not honest people so dnt expect us to say hoesty is not best policy .. therefore they say "honesty is best policy" but they dnt really mean it .. all they mean is its appearence of honesty that its best policy!

honesty is best policy only if everyone on this planet is honest , i was honest with my boss one day and did something that worked against him and eventually I lost my job .. i also saw his point, he thinks other peoples are not honest and i shouldnt have been honest at my work on that day ...

so in my opinion honesty sucks! honesty is only good if everyone is honest , and since not everyone is honest therefore if im honest then i will lose!
I SNOOZ , I LOSE!

most people think its appearence of honesty that its best policy, and i agree with that ... i know its not ideal ... but hey we dnt live in an ideal word!

if girl wants me becasue of my lies then she deserves what she gets!

monkeybuster · 05-12-2010, 04:19 PM

palacim, maaaaaate... take a step back and think about it. If you think being single is boring then you'll probably portray yourself as boring. But if you think being single is awesome then you'll probably portray yourself as a funking god damn pimp ass mother fucker that defines awesome!

You need to start thinking about those negative beliefs. Once I realised that I AM worth talking to, my whole mindset shifted. If a girl doesn't want to get to know me, then thats definitely her issue, and not mine.

All I have to do now is not give her a reason not to like me. (can someone help me with the semantics of a double negative! At least I know what I mean! If you don't understand it then the problem lies with you!

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Morgan · 06-12-2010, 03:27 AM

Yep, unless you can meet this girl IRL you're not gonna get anywhere with her. Online game...? Why bother it's too much work when you can just go to a bar and approach a hot stranger - no preamble.

The guys are right by the way, don't lie.

[Spin]

Saying you're single isn't bad. Being embarrassed that you're single is. Saying "Yeah I'm single, I'm not up for a relationship at the moment." or something is okay. Best of all if you're being honest about it then that sincerity shines through and can make you more attractive to her. I tell women these days that a relationship is a natural thing that should form between two people without forcing a commitment which may or may not be of any value. It's just asking people to cheat and get hurt. That's something I actually believe and I've never had somebody respond badly, even though it's essentially good spin for "I'm single."

dino · 07-12-2010, 01:41 AM

LOL, thats some funny shit

Maxemillion · 07-12-2010, 03:18 PM

Agree with morgan, be aware of shit tests, even shit tests u give urself. The girl after confidence at the end of the day. You could look like Hitler, with one leg, and still get loads of girls if you were confident and cool and fun enough. Power comes from within, the more social you get the more confident and relaxed you'll be when you start to see all humans as possible to understand and approachable. Change anything in your mind thats holding you back into something you can use to ur advantage.