Agree with morgan, be aware of shit tests, even shit tests u give urself. The girl after confidence at the end of the day. You could look like Hitler, with one leg, and still get loads of girls if you were confident and cool and fun enough. Power comes from within, the more social you get the more confident and relaxed you'll be when you start to see all humans as possible to understand and approachable. Change anything in your mind thats holding you back into something you can use to ur advantage.