Ha! I'm usually the one correcting people's grammar - thanks
Glad to hear you're meeting people all the time. I started a new job this year with a very big company and that has expanded my horizons. But before that, things had stagnated a bit - same job with small company for a few years, same group of friends etc.
How do you meet new people, Midas? Do you take yourself out (theatre, cinema, galleries etc) or have friends that you go out socialising with? I ask because the majority of my friends have paired off, so going out with the purpose of making new friends or meeting girls is a rare occurrence.
Anyway, back to original point: I think that feeling of discovering a connection with someone can be amazing, but my point was that it's unlikely to occur with people you've known for a long time, so sarging, or to a lesser extent just going out and meeting new people will improve your chances of it happening.