haha unfortunately no mate... i dont hate
PUA as such... i just hate how it warps some guys minds for the worse... it did it to me for a period...
i became obsessed with playin the game CONSTANTLY...
while i rip mystery... i still beleive the general principles are good and probly have been influenced in how i do alot...
hwever, all the FILL IN BITS to sell books... the whole 5 for 5 thing for instance, it only makes guys feel they are inadiquate untill they acheive this..... therefore every time apprach they FEAR they arent goof enuf...
i was gettin to 4 of 5 then bein DEVOED if i got blew out, BACK TO THE OLD DRAWIN BOARD...
i then realised NOBODY PULLS100%.... NOBODY...
and after seein 1 video of mystery in action... and she was fat, i then knew he isnt as confident in himself as his books would portray.
u need to accept no as a part of life... and be able to move past it not through it.
i genuinely feel bad for the guys i give grief to on here, coz they need to go through the same transition i did. hopefully they do it with less emotional fallout that it cost me!!
however the nly real person to blame by gettin suckered in is urself....
and it made me a better person for it