Hey guys

Well lately an ex got in touch with me, this girl one my "one" (She is also seeing someone) and we have been sending texts back and forth. She wouldnt reply to me for a couple days, so I decided to treat her the same and I also waited a few days to reply. We go back and forth like this, her replying and me txting back a day or two later

So I eventually get round to replying to her after a period of time, she replies pretty quickly and then she then starts to bring up how we met, and this game of pingpong we played during that time (which I took as an IoI), I responded after a couple of hours this time like "haha yea, I would still kick your ass at pingpong, but im never playing beer pong with you again" I then cracked a joke about me being at the gym.

So she responds 3 days later in similar huhmerous suit about being in the gym,and my pingpong comments.

So my goal is to get her to call me. At this point Im thinking I will wait a few days before I reply, and the reply will be something suitably brief such as "haha you suck" or perhaps "thats the last time I go with michelle, shes such a slave driver" Playing on the jelously card and then go for a freeze out.

My txt game isnt to good, So i need some advice!

You seem to be doing well dude, I usually mirror the girl in early stages. So I'd say you're doing alright there.

Something to remember though is that texts between first meet/day2 is there to keep her warm and build comfort, so be very careful with C&F, use it, but make sure it's obvious. I've had girls stop responding after taking a to harsh C&F as serious.

I reckon you should not try to get her to call you, but just call her, let her know you're going to do XXXX and if she wants she can tag along. That way she is entering your reality, not being asked out.

Seeing as this is an Ex of yours, would you be comfortable escalating sexually? For instance if you had amazing make up sex, or a funny position you enjoyed together etc. Remind her of it, it'll put her and you in a sexual frame in her mind.

Example:
We should never get together again, those arguments use to drive me insane! The make up sex was fantastic though....ok need cold shower now! xx

-Loke

I fail to see the point in this. Jealousy sucks. Call her tonight and get this date sorted!!

This forum is turning into a clone of puahate.com soon

I wish it were as easy as getting a date right away, but we live in different towns now, so any date will have to wait until im back home next, its annoying because I was in the same town as her last night. But yeah. I might call her tonight, or maybe tomorrow

There's a solution here. Find girls that live nearer. You could be wasting a lot of energy on something that 'might' happen in the future.

Just phone her now and again to keep her on the back burner till you go home, then tell her to meet you.

If it doesn't work... one word: ABUNDANCE!

Tried and tested with one text every other day. Beware of the backlash of "you haven't text me in a week!" if you haven't text her in a few days though. There's a shit load of text games here which you can adapt to your convo: Pick Up Artist :: List of Text Messages Game - Helped me no end

I called her last night after I had been to see a band we like. I made sure it was a brief call, asked how she was, told her I was doing great and then some chat and I invited her to a show im doing down her way in a couple of weeks, I just hope she isnt intending on bringing her new boyfriend