Seriously thanks for all the replies lads, really didnt expect so many replies with me being a newbie and all.

Dont worry about it mate... has anyone mentioned the "INITIATION" u basically have to suck off all senior members

mmmm things just got interesting

Ok so a few weeks since I posted this thought I would update if anyones interested, I kept up the no contact and general ignorance while out with the group, but we were out last night and she comes over to me and says "are we friends yet?" I shrugged my shoulders and continued talking to my mates (which I thought was a nice touch)

Then one of her friends tells me that things arent going too well with her and her boyfriend and that she was gutted because I looked good, and she regrets how things turned out with me and her.

At this stage I'm almost over the whole thing and I think I would be comfortable with being her friend, but I dont want to get sucked in again and have a relationship or anything with her if things went that way, whats a good way to stop this?

Someone earlier in the article mentioned a fuck buddy scenario, could be a plan haha