I say that I can handle myself in the long(er) game. If I get a number and meet up with the girl for a second time then I'm pretty sure I can bed her.

Though this is great... I've been thinking about 1 night stands ( ) and how to get better at getting them more often.

This might sound like a newbie question but what tips do you guys apply to get them? Obviously, getting white hot at the basics is the start but anyone got any other thoughts / tips / hints / drinks that may increase the 1NS ratio...

I mean, the obvious thing I can think of is how high her ASD guard is up... Step 1 is obviously blow that out the water... Without sounding cliche, is it REALLY a certain type a girl that one night stands? Or being more 'aggressive' in getting them...

Thoughts please!

I've not been chasing ONS very hard at all the last few months, I tend to set up a lot of day 2s and bed them after a date or two. But when I did use to go for the ONS, I'd just escalate kino a lot, and try to pre empt LMR by making her feel "special" and that it's not just a ONS....hard to explain really But I did often use the Hijacked my brain routine by Mystery and the LMR would often be gone by the time we actually got in bed.