I've not been chasing ONS very hard at all the last few months, I tend to set up a lot of day 2s and bed them after a date or two. But when I did use to go for the ONS, I'd just escalate kino a lot, and try to pre empt LMR by making her feel "special" and that it's not just a ONS....hard to explain really But I did often use the Hijacked my brain routine by Mystery and the LMR would often be gone by the time we actually got in bed.